Ok, so I start talking to this girl on myspace about 2 months ago. She is in florida and Im in TX. Her interest level was sky high and I immediately moved up her friends list. Now, I'm a very good looking guy, so that could have something to do with it, but our emails were always super flirty. She sends me a bunch of pics in sexy outfits, and we talked on the phone and she likes to talk about sex about 25% of the time.
So one night about a month ago, I text her that "this is pointless". Dumb, I know, but I had a bad day. She says, "no its not pointless sweetie didnt you get my comments?" We talk on the phone and I take it back and its back to the sweet talk.
One day she changes her friends list so that its some guy and then me in 2nd (before this I was somewhere in the middle). So the next time we talk I say, so I guess I have some competition huh? To which she says, "maybe
".
Anyways, the other guy lives in the same town as her so I'm obviously at a disadvantage. She says he isnt her bf, they just "watch the OC together". But he is leaving her sweet comments, and I kinda get irritated (I know, mistake on my part). So a few days later, she puts "in a relationship" on her profile and moves me to #3 behind the dude and a girl. But I get a message saying Im in her heart and wont move below #3.
So I say, "hey Im dissapointed but I understand." She tells me, "not to forget her phone #". Since then, she has messaged me almost every day and has called and we have again had the phone sex. I brought up the cute girl I had a job interview with and she gets miffed at that. She has never once talked about her guy, and I haven't brought it up either. When we talk its always just about her and me, and she says she wants to come spend new years with me. To which I say ok. This week, one of her friends says have fun in the bahamas...and she calls me tues night and we have a nice talk and she brings up new years again, but doesnt mention the bahamas. So she hasnt been online since tues, so she is obviously in the bahamas and I would assume she is with the other guy.
My question, is when she comes back tomorrow...what should my approach be? I can't act jelous or anything like that, but I can't just be all sweet either can I? I was thinking of going with friendly but busy, cause Im starting my new job. Any tips you have would be much appreciated.
So one night about a month ago, I text her that "this is pointless". Dumb, I know, but I had a bad day. She says, "no its not pointless sweetie didnt you get my comments?" We talk on the phone and I take it back and its back to the sweet talk.
One day she changes her friends list so that its some guy and then me in 2nd (before this I was somewhere in the middle). So the next time we talk I say, so I guess I have some competition huh? To which she says, "maybe
". Anyways, the other guy lives in the same town as her so I'm obviously at a disadvantage. She says he isnt her bf, they just "watch the OC together". But he is leaving her sweet comments, and I kinda get irritated (I know, mistake on my part). So a few days later, she puts "in a relationship" on her profile and moves me to #3 behind the dude and a girl. But I get a message saying Im in her heart and wont move below #3.
So I say, "hey Im dissapointed but I understand." She tells me, "not to forget her phone #
". Since then, she has messaged me almost every day and has called and we have again had the phone sex. I brought up the cute girl I had a job interview with and she gets miffed at that. She has never once talked about her guy, and I haven't brought it up either. When we talk its always just about her and me, and she says she wants to come spend new years with me. To which I say ok. This week, one of her friends says have fun in the bahamas...and she calls me tues night and we have a nice talk and she brings up new years again, but doesnt mention the bahamas. So she hasnt been online since tues, so she is obviously in the bahamas and I would assume she is with the other guy. My question, is when she comes back tomorrow...what should my approach be? I can't act jelous or anything like that, but I can't just be all sweet either can I? I was thinking of going with friendly but busy, cause Im starting my new job. Any tips you have would be much appreciated.