Any tips for dealing with Russian girls and their BS?

[pikachu_69]

I've made a post about this somewhere...

Essentially all women are the same with slight different mannerisms

About Russian girls specifically?

 

[Danton1975]

I have dated a few Russian girls and I have discovered they seem to play a lot more games and go to greater lengths to cause drama than the average HB. I don't know if it's a clash of culture or they expect men to put up with their BS but I am getting tired of it. Can anyone give me any tips on what to do differently dealing with such females?

I know in their culture men are men and women are women. However, I have noticed that say for instance you arrange a date with 1 and she cancels she almost never will counter offer with another time expecting the man to come back. If she does it twice then she's not interested, but I have experienced that if you get that initial cancellation it does not mean she's not interested but playing a silly game to see how into her you are.

I've noticed also they all pull that eyes looking down avoiding all possible eye contact pretending they don't see you with a stern look on their face like they've got together to discuss how to do it hahaha.

Even with girls I was friends with but never wanted to get with pull this same stunt! It can't be a coincidence.

I was married to one and known many. They are really not much different than other women, except they seem to be more conservative, religion is a big factor of their life, and they seem to mostly respond to dominant, Alpha Males, who take the lead into the relationship. I might be mistaken though, but this is what I gathered by hanging around many Russians for a long time.

 

[Big Poppa]

Call me racist, but I can't stand Russian men. They annoy me to no end, especially at the gym. If I wanted half assed tips on how to to do a California Press I would have asked.

Wow, that was unneeded, but still.

Anyways, Russian girls always seem to have that whole "aloof" and "cold" thing always with them.

Anyone else notice this: There are no "cute" Russians. They're either really ugly, or really hot.

 

[pikachu_69]

I was married to one and known many. They are really not much different than other women, except they seem to be more conservative, religion is a big factor of their life, and they seem to mostly respond to dominant, Alpha Males, who take the lead into the relationship. I might be mistaken though, but this is what I gathered by hanging around many Russians for a long time.

Yeah I've noticed that, however it's more that I find the girls to be very spoilt expecting the man to put up with whatever flaking or whatnot and still expect him to come back. Speaking to Russian guys they seem to have to act like pushovers and say nothing about the girls spoilt behaviour, if you get angry you've lost.

I guess showing by your actions, i.e. No Contact for a few days when they've behaved badly is the best way to train them to behave better?

But what if they don't reply or return your call?

I'm fortunate I can bump into them on campus to act indifferent and ignore them but if your only means of contacting them is via phone then the actual distance between you is reliant on NC.

 

[Danton1975]

Okay...But bear in mind that the dominant Alpha males these girls typically date are still caring and loving in their own way. Not being Russian, they will consider you sceptically, especially if you are very eccentric around them. They do not like too much eccentricity because that is so "American." Best thing you can do is to take a genuine, flattering interest in their culture, language etc...again, I feel I am generalizing somewhat here so I may be way off.

 

[Nutz]

Can you give examples of this i.e. what to do?

If you try to arrange a date with her she'll agree, then just cancel last minute saying she wants to go partying with her girls. She expects you to come back with a new time.

Are you saying set up another date time then just cancel on her and then ignore her for a bit to p1ss her off?

http://roissy.wordpress.com/2009/01/14/a-hole-game-day-3/

He talks more about it elsewhere in the blog and gives better examples, but this was the first result on google.

 

[pikachu_69]

Okay...But bear in mind that the dominant Alpha males these girls typically date are still caring and loving in their own way. Not being Russian, they will consider you sceptically, especially if you are very eccentric around them. They do not like too much eccentricity because that is so "American." Best thing you can do is to take a genuine, flattering interest in their culture, language etc...again, I feel I am generalizing somewhat here so I may be way off.

But how do these alpha males from their country still show their caring and love?

I noticed Russian girls constantly seem to be carrying around flowers of some sort that the guys should buy them flowers, I thought buying flowers was such a typical AFC supplicating thing to do..

However I do admit that if you act like a dominant Alpha male, then buying flowers for her isn't going to change that in her eyes.