"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Any tips for dating older woman?

KrisD

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Hello there,
I am about to go out on a date with a woman who is 4 years older than me.
I am 26 and she is 30.

She actually looks no more than 25 and she is really attractive blonde bomb.

I have dated only once a girl older than me, only 1 year older so I can't really say there's any difference in the age.

But 4 years older makes me a bit nervous.
Do you guys have any tips on how should I proceed? It's my first time that I date a girl a bit older than me.

Thanks for the attention, take care
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The Duke

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Very little difference at that age. Treat her as you normally would a girl your age. I'm sure she is thinking she really has something since she is going out with a younger guy.
 

LimaBean

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Exact situation in in. I'm going on a date this week with a 31 y/o, blonde, in shape- looks early 20s. I'm 25. First time I'll be going out with a woman 6 years my senior. Hope yours goes well
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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KrisD

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Just a quick update, the date went perfect, I am seing her again tonight. Hopefully I will score haha
 

KrisD

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Exact situation in in. I'm going on a date this week with a 31 y/o, blonde, in shape- looks early 20s. I'm 25. First time I'll be going out with a woman 6 years my senior. Hope yours goes well
How was your date mate? And thanks for the support :)
 
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