Been in sosuave many years now . I have seen many many threads and noticed something very very common with most of the threads .
Any guy who asked for some advice for a certain girl , in the end he didn't score.
So many dating gurus in here and not a single thread where every advice given was successful.
Why's that?
Well, first I think this is a bit of an exaggeration. There's plenty of successful guys talking about having success with their lives and/or with women. Look at the recent thread by TheGambino for just one example - dude's sorting his gym routine out and working on his game. It's inspiring.
The majority of threads are "need advice" threads, and the majority of those posters
don't listen to that advice. That's why they do poorly. Tons of guys come on here, moan about some girl treating them poorly (usually showcasing a plethora of flaws in their handling of the situation) and then get angry and defensive when given advice and refuse to listen. Surprise surprise, in the end it doesn't work out for them. I frequently ask for advice myself and I try to listen to it, and I've found it very helpful.
There are also a lot of threads here recently that aren't even appropriate. Guys talking s**t about strippers, hookers and prostitutes, or starting ego threads where they hate on everyone else for being "beta", or arguing semantics over whether you need cash to impress women or not. This isn't even relevant to game or dating, and surprise surprise again, these posters are usually bad with women, or at the least not really subscribing to "DJ qualities". They also tend to ignore advice, so who'd a thunk it, they tend to not improve.
(Just realised Amante pretty much just said all of this. Damn. Keeping it anyway...I spent my time typing it, dammit).
Sosuave doesn’t like success stories, they like break up and victim stories.
Success stories means the poster is more successful than the postee. Annoys them to no end. That’s why the slightest hiccup in any situation is ‘move on, spin plates, don’t commit.’
PRINCE Harry fully and completely and utterly commits his life and soul to a 36+ divorced women and marries her because he is in love. He gets destroyed by SS members. A regular poster doesn’t stand a chance.
This again is an exaggeration. I'd say the majority of members here are patient, friendly and helpful. Unfortunately, as with anything, there's a very vocal minority who only come on here to w*nk over themselves and shout "U R BETA, BRUH! LOLCUCK!" at every single f*cking post they read (think Spidah or whatever his name was). Then there are the usual trolls and people who post s**t-threads over and over.
But most people want to help, or learn.
7. Attraction and seduction is not a step by step, plug and play tactic. It requires a feel and a certain mindset, one in which many men have yet to develop. Few people nail it on the first attempt.
I think this is particularly important. A ton of it is down to things like establishing your SMV and the individuality of the girl, too.
I know at the moment, for example, that I need to hit the gym to lean up if I want to expect to score the hottest girls out there. So that's going to mean that I'm significantly less effective at the moment until I do that and get the boost in aesthetics and confidence.
And at the end of the day every woman is a different human too. Even the best advice and the smoothest game will occasionally fail with a certain woman because her interest is low or because of 2,000 different practical reasons why she may say no even if she is raring to go (i.e recent breakup, financial problems, low self esteem, insecurity in herself, bereavement, yadda yadda yadda)
