"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Ok, so I'm texting this girl. She says she is in Texas on business until next Thursday, so I ask if she thinks she'll have any free time the rest of that week. She says "yes :)" and I tell her that she should spend some of that free time with me. Then she says "you have to convince me". I'm not sure where to go from here. She's hot but I'm not trying to jump through hoops for any girl and definitely not for a first date. Any suggestions?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Tuesday- minigolf, you,me and some icecream to finish with ill pick you up at 8


^^ there you are, send it and see
 

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relx said:
Lol, appreciate it man. It worked well. ;)
Yep. When you're presented with one of those types of situations, just ignore it instead of worrying about making some clever response.

Always keep things within your frame. Not hers.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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