"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Any sites that teach you better dancing??

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Triple X

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OK, not really something I want to admit, but f*** it. I must confess the part of my game that seems to be most lacking right now is my dancing.

Like, I go to clubs and give it my best shot (normally while drunk) and to tell the truth I thought I was pretty good. However most of my friends (and some strangers) seem to disagree.

I've done a search online for 'dancing skills' etc.. but all I seem to get is advice on how to do ballroom dancing and sh*t like that. Not particularly useful. :rolleyes:

Sooo.... does anyone on here know of any decent sites that teach you how to improve your dancing in clubs n all that?? I think I, as well as others, could definitely benefit from that. Thx in advance..
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Dancing...up until last October, I would not dance for the Life of me...not at all. Think of a big tall white tree that just swayed in the wind.. Since I'm at college, 80% of the parties you go to will involve some sort of dancing...so I pretty much just asked on of my buddies that I had made at college....Straight up I asked him "Look at me, Im pathetic I need help. Show me some basic steps." I felt hella stupid, but he was really cool, plus he could dance (former stripper, black. So yeah.) And he just showed me some basics. LIke how to find the BEAT in music, to move your feet, and hips..

Just find a friend..and ask him for some pointers. When/if you learn these. It is also a great way to have some of your lady friends help you out...Just tell em you are learning some new steps and you need a little Constructive critisism.

As for a site... I used to browse
Mr wiggles but i cant get on it today..
 

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Videos/Lessons

Many clubs in larger cities offer dance lessons on certain nights. Particularly, ethnic-oriented clubs tend to do this.
Check around. Lessons are normally
included with the door fee on these
nights. There will also be less people
to scare you on these nights.

Otherwise, I am sure there must be
videos out there. Still, I think it would
be best to have a partner to practice
with an critique you.
 

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Thanks guys.

But no websites tho??

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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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