"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Any seniors pumped for college?

Flabbergasped?

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I have to say that I'm very tired of high school girls, but college girls have never been too accessible in my town. Looking forward to testing my DJ skills in an environment that is as close to the real world as it gets (outside of the real world, of course.)

That, and I can't wait to not have to live with my parents anymore. :up:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Joe The Homophobe

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Congrats on your move to college! When I got to highschool I thought "man the girls here are pretty" then when I got to college I said "man the girls here are hot," just wait till you get to university those are the real deal.
 

Potbelly

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yeah i'm pretty excited. i'm about to blow this joint.
 

toddC

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i can't WAIT for college next year...I'm going to Indiana University and I visited and wow are there some hot girls there. I can't wait to DJ some girls the moment I get there! :)
 

The Comeback Kid

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I can't wait either!

Also, when you start college, you probably have no rep, no history, etc., so you can create your identity exactly the way you want it. These last two months or so of high school is going to be torture!! Being trapped in one building for 7 hours a day and seeing how interior high school is to college makes me want to leave even more.

Coincidentally, one of the hottest, more sociable chicks in my school (HB 9-9.5) is going to the same private University as myself (I live in NY, so I said that since it's not a SUNY, where most of my high school goes to). Also, she is in the same "college/school" as me (like the School of Management/Business/Arts and Sciences/etc.). I spoke with her a little today about it, noting how she got a half-tuition scholarship. I happen to know a bit more about the school than her (I got in during Early Decision in November), so if she ha a question about something, she'll ask me. :whistle:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Friendly Otter

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Happy for you, Flabbergasped, but college is nowhere near the real world, it is a sheltered and immature environment where unreal perceptions of the world can flourish undisturbed by reality. Still, have fun. If you can, find most of your friends among those whose studies are based on the natural sciences as everything else, including my own studies, is partly or fully flaky, and often influences the students, what with you having to read it for your exams. After college there is a whole lot of unlearning to do.

Though the sex is good!
 

Fitch

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The Comeback Kid said:
I can't wait either!

Also, when you start college, you probably have no rep, no history, etc., so you can create your identity exactly the way you want it. These last two months or so of high school is going to be torture!! Being trapped in one building for 7 hours a day and seeing how interior high school is to college makes me want to leave even more.

Coincidentally, one of the hottest, more sociable chicks in my school (HB 9-9.5) is going to the same private University as myself (I live in NY, so I said that since it's not a SUNY, where most of my high school goes to). Also, she is in the same "college/school" as me (like the School of Management/Business/Arts and Sciences/etc.). I spoke with her a little today about it, noting how she got a half-tuition scholarship. I happen to know a bit more about the school than her (I got in during Early Decision in November), so if she ha a question about something, she'll ask me. :whistle:
Which private university are you two attending?
 
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