"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Any recommendations for Valentines?

Wannabe_DonJuan

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Anyone got any recommendations? Like, what are you all doing?

I'm gonna take my girl out to a restaurant, get drunk nicely and bring her home, but what should I get her as a gift?

Teddy bear is too cheesy right?

Any suggestions?

Thanks
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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christz

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just another day to me, blowing up these type of events bigger than they really are is why people get depressed they don't have a girl.

if i had a girl i'd probably spend a few hours with her. but since i don't i'll probably do what i've always done in the past. hang out with friends
 

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The key with gifts is to give her something that will keep her thinking about you long after you are gone. If she is thinking about you she wont be thinking about no one else.

Great gift idea.
Buy a cheap, pocket mirror that women usually carry for make up purposes. Put it open in a box and close it. Put a note on it that reads "Open to find my soul!" When she opens it she will see a reflection of herself and you will be the king for the month. Cause she will have the most envied thing all girls want, a great story to make her friends jealous and envious.

PS. To make it even better sometime this week make a quick mention how you think it really means a lot when a person puts thought in effort in a gift, cause it shows you really cared a lot to go through so much effort instead of spending money on a gift a million other people have. Make the comment quick and then move on trust me she will store it away. This will instensify your gift by a million times.

PSS-the greatest game isnt what you really think it what they think you think.
 

DeathDealer

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V-day is another wasteful "semi" holiday.. treat it like another date day. DOn't worry.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Ken785

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feb. 14th. im still single so im going to start hitting up the bookstores and grab me one...
 

Joe The Homophobe

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You shouldn't be stressing out over valentines gift. They are only your gfs, not your wives, you shouln't spend lots of your hard earned money on a gf which can be lost or replaced anyday.
 
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