Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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any real dj's kno wtf is up with this situiation

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ive been flirting with this girl in one of my classes all year and ive gotten to kno her well and we have the same group of friends. just to let everyone kno, every guy wants this girl, shes not hot, just rediciously cute to the point where every guy wants her.

lol so i had the class today and i donno what she what she had up her sleave. all a sudden she picks a fake fight with me, like a flirting fight, something was up. And we were working on this sheet and then shes like wispering to her friend across the room to come over to her and hardcore waving to her, "get over here". now i have no idea wtf that was all about.

lol and then we kept fake fighting to the point where the teacher thought something was up. and she was like "fuk u" and i was like "fuk u harder" and it wass just back and forth like this and it was like extreme sexual tension, i dont think awkwardness.

anyone kno what happened, is she just being a tease or is she serious, and why she waved her friend over. thankssssss
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Either it's a practical joke, she's interested or....she's just being really friendly.

How to tell. Start teasing her. I don't mean little teases, but hit the sexual teasing "You know you want to fvck me" attitude. If she buys it, start making her work for you. Mention how other girls are cute and get her to work to make her cute in your eyes. Remember to keep yourself from falling for her and...progress to a date, movie night at her house...


:)

If it doesn't work, at least you're having fun!
 
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Thanksss, i think shes just trying to be a tease but hey what do i know. Im also really tied up on why she was waving her friend over during the middle of the whole thing. yo i want to marry this girl seriously.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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lol im jk'ing with the marriage but it dosent matter how much i like this girl because I have controlled it all along. this is not just any girl, a lot of guys are after this girl, most of them are sophmores, im a junior tho, i really feel i have an edge, i want the bragging rights to say i got with this girl haha.

this is a defining point tho, the whole concept of a dj is being able to get the girl u want, lol the moment i saw this girl i wanted her. the whole fake fight was a nice surprise. my next move is like docs said, have the u kno u want to fuk me attitude but im kinda grey on whats ment by that, like what specifically should i say, i kno the attitude tho. thanks
 
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