"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Any psytrance fans here?

karmavsDogma

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Is it just me, or is the psytrance scene a full-on sausage fest? I love the music, the outdoor camping festivals, even the "hippie-ness" to some degree. But I can't seem to find very many women who are down with the scene, or have even heard of it. As I go along trying to get something started with the ladies, I'm keeping an eye out specifically for psytrance chicks. To this day I'm still looking. Is this a universal phenomenon in the psytrance scene, or just isolated to Arizona.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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ethnomethodologist

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lol, I responded to the wrong thread... I thought I had gone into some trance there and typed up some BS that I won't ever remember:p go figure.
 

Create Reality

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PsyTrance makes the ultimate driving music! Unfortunately the scene is a bit thin ever since the millenium came around.
 

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Theres plenty of women in the goa scene here in Australia, but not women id ever be interested in dating. Seems they're all either drug abusers, hippies or have steroid built boyfriends who sit in the middle of the dancefloor glaring at everyone. And a few people who fall into all three categories.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Jariel

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I'm a major Psy/goa trance fan since 1995. I've never been into the scene much as the hippy image/lifestyle doesn't appeal to me, but the music blows my mind!

That said, I've not heard much quality stuff for a long time. It's all leaning too much towards ambient/dub/electronic for my liking and I prefer it hard, deep and fast! (don't we all! ;)

Apart from Misted Muppet (who is my favourite artist since Hallucinogen), there aren't many highlights I can think of. Though any recommendations would be welcome.
 

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Check out some Broken Toy stuff Jariel - particularly 'What is it' , 'Toys just wanna have fun' and 'Fragile'
 

karmavsDogma

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Cosma - Simplicity is not to be missed
Also try the Reefer Madness comp on TIPWorld.
And if anyone is into psytrance, and is from Arizona, check out http://www.overmindworks.com and http://www.massabduction.com

As for the women in the scene, I know of exactly one single lady, and she's hot, but I'm already in the friend zone there (on purpose - she has hotter friends). Every other woman I meet has been brought in by her boyfriend and isn't really that into it. Since I have limited exposure to the scene (mostly AZ and CA), I was curious if this is universal? Am I better off holding out for a psytrance chick, or should I just find someone to bring into the fold?
 
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