"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

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Any Powerlifters in here?

Jvesti

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Any Powerlifters in here? Do you compete? What are your maxes?

I started being interested in powerlifting in febuary. (I did bodybuilding for about 2 years before that). I want to compete later this year. my stats right now are.

Wt: 187
Bench: 325
Squat: high 400's
Deadlift: 550

Does anyone do "westside barbell"? I have been using that program for the past month or so and have been getting awesome strength gains.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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If you are not ****ting us then your lifts are genuinely impressive as you are well past 1000. However, the way you said "westside barbell" and made it seem like a miracle makes your declarement sketchy. Are u past 18?
 

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Originally posted by California Love
If you are not ****ting us then your lifts are genuinely impressive as you are well past 1000. However, the way you said "westside barbell" and made it seem like a miracle makes your declarement sketchy. Are u past 18?
lol well as seen on my profile i am 22. And it is not a miracle i've just been getting solid gains from it over the past month or so.
 

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im a powerlifter. only because of the way i train. i started in january and im doing pretty good. im gonna meet my goal of a 200 pound bench by the end of may.
 

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Originally posted by Lt dan
im a powerlifter. only because of the way i train. i started in january and im doing pretty good. im gonna meet my goal of a 200 pound bench by the end of may.
You on any program or do you just do whatever?
 

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chances are you wont find any powerlifters here. there are too many pencil necks with the same ol' acne and creatine questions.

try the bodybuilding.com or the teenbodybuilding.com forums over there.

theyve got a nice program overthere. i like it anyway:p
 

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Originally posted by Jvesti
You on any program or do you just do whatever?
ive made up my own program but it came from a few different ones.
monday on bench i do pyramids that go like this
5x105
5x105
4x125
4x125
3x145
3x145
2x165
2x165
1x185
1x185
then four sets of five reps on curls at 45, flys at 45, dips and pullups. the only things that change throughout the weeks are curls and bench.
wednesday bench and curls i do ten sets of my two rep max, same with curls. ill do one set of bench and then one set of curls back and fourth. the last time i did this i used 165 on bech and 50 on curls. ill probably use 170 on bench this week.
fridays are the same as mondays but ill throw in another lift. im not sure of the name but its an olympic lift where you start with the bar on the floor and in one smooth movement you put it over your head.
tuesdays and thursdays i do squats deads, weighted situps, weighted side bends, leg extension and leg curls, and usually some weighted box jumps.
 

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Yea, I powerlift as of 2 months ago. However, I've been bodybuilding for 3/4 of a year.

Squat: 215x4

Deadlift: 235x4

Bench: 190x3 (I want it at 205x4 by mid may)


Bodyweight = 175 RAW, 200 with food, and water in me. (Yes, I eat and drink alot)
 

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good numbers man, entering a few meets will be great for your training. ive been powerlifting for a few years now, my bests are

bench - 340
squat - 460
dead - 440
165 body weight, just a belt used on the squats and deads

i'm in med school now and the past few months were really rough on the training so my lifts are all down a little, but the school year is winding down a little and i've been picking it up the past week or 2, so hopefully i'll be able to get back near those numbers.

ive done the westside stuff in the past...it worked great for my squat but i had to play around with their bench stuff to get results. i still do speed work with the minis about every 2 weeks and alternate a bunch of more conventional stuff with their max effort work.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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