"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Any plans for Christmas?

big weezy

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She texts 'any plans for Christmas?' in response to my text.

Should I pretend I've got lots of parties to go to? or would basically saying 'no plans yet' be sufficient?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

Mantis Toboggan

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big weezy said:
She texts 'any plans for Christmas?' in response to my text.

Should I pretend I've got lots of parties to go to? or would basically saying 'no plans yet' be sufficient?

That's a GREAT question, big weezy.

Maybe you should text her a few dozen times and tell her to meet you at Starbucks for a peppermint hot chocolate.
 

big weezy

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Mantis Toboggan said:
That's a GREAT question, big weezy.

Maybe you should text her a few dozen times and tell her to meet you at Starbucks for a peppermint hot chocolate.
Lol you seem to be in a bad mood today.
 
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