Happened to me 3 years in too. Other life factors influenced it as well but yeah. Part of it is the women you deal with. The ones who are single are obviously more likely to be messed up than some who are married. But in the end, they’re all still women.
I actually began experimenting fairly recently with some more ‘beta’ game since it’s been so long lol. I’ve noticed that women end up getting their feelings hurt when you’re too strong, and it’s always because they think that you don’t love them. That’s why they say in a marriage you can’t be ‘alpha’ all the time or smth. Idk, I ****ing hate it personally. I think it’s just female insecurity coming into play. I always reach the point of being too alpha (man I fking hate using that term, it’s so cringe but it fits here) and they end up getting their feelings hurt. But at the same time, if you act beta-like in any sort of way, they’ll lose attraction for you. It always gets to the same point—you either hurt her feelings by being alpha and she doesn’t want to be with you anymore, or you make her lose attraction towards you be being beta and the relationship ends that way. It’s a damned-if-you-do, damned-if-you-don’t type situation. I’ve been trying to navigate these waters more effectively but man it’s hard.
But yeah, I began experimenting with some more ‘beta’-like behaviors recently, and I gotta say, it doesn’t fkn work lmao. Like, I’m not talking about full-on simp behavior, I’m talking about just being a genuinely good person who tries to help them out, texting first more/not waiting to respond to them for as long (I do this subconsciously, I just made more of an effort to text faster), and take the beta route when it comes to those “damned if you do, damned if you don’t” type situations. Big fail. I only did this on girls I wasn’t serious about doing anything with (i.e. girls with lower SMV than me) too. I was honestly considering making a post about this. There was one girl who I single-handedly helped heal from psychological trauma that she had, something that had been plaguing her for years and I figured I’d just do it for the sake of God (literally) even though it was 3 AM and I was trying to go to sleep.
She ghosted me for like 3 days afterwards LOL
I mean it’s what I get for trying to help her lol but it does kinda make me wonder though. Like forget sexual relationship dynamics for a sec, even though I wasn’t angling for anything or trying to sleep with her, just having some common decency is too much to ask for. I’m not even talking on a man-to-woman level, I just mean on a person-to-person level. Like there’s not a dude in this world who wouldn’t be grateful after something like that. It’s like they don’t realize what you do for them and will never appreciate you for anything you’ve done RIP. All that matters is the now, and possibly what you can do for them in the future. It’s like these women are just programmed for relationship failure or something. No wonder why female infanticide and wifebeating existed all throughout history—these bitches are crazy. And they wonder where all the “good men” are at lmao now I remember hahaha