“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Any other OG's still on SS from around 2009-2017

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Been in and out of here since 2003, back when I was a TERRIBLE dater and was looking for any advice I could find (under a completely different name). Now it's 2026 and today is my 1-year wedding anniversary. In between that, had a LOT of dating successes, challenges, and growth, thanks in part to stuff I learned here, which is why I'm now here giving back any advice I can.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

Crissco

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I had to look, but I got here in 05. I remember the moment that I had a hot girl walk out of my place because I only knew how to act like I wasn't interested, and she got bored. She shut the door and I walked straight to the desktop computer and googled how to get girls, because I knew I had a lot to learn.
Haha, of course I remember you, hope all is well man!
 

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I still check in from time to time, but unfortunately it’s mostly recycled info and people who aren’t actually leveling up their game.
Agreed. It seems like an abundance of men who come here for advice, dislike the good advice they're given, argue for a few days/weeks and then vanish.
Few people want to take a hard, honest look at themselves and do the work to improve
 

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@Crissco Hi there! I'm pretty new, but got interested about your transformation!
If you had to keep a short list of the things that actually made you from a guy to a man,thanks to sosuave, what that would look like?
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

Crissco

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Whats up man I still check this site a few times a month but it's not what it used to be, I'll be gone for good before the year is up
Blast from the past. Whats up man? Hope all is well
 

Roober

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Agreed. It seems like an abundance of men who come here for advice, dislike the good advice they're given, argue for a few days/weeks and then vanish.
Few people want to take a hard, honest look at themselves and do the work to improve
100% Glad to see your still around :cool:
 

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****in found this place when i was 18 like 15 years ago lol i still come back to re-read old posts here.
 

Chev.Chelios

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I had to look, but I got here in 05. I remember the moment that I had a hot girl walk out of my place because I only knew how to act like I wasn't interested, and she got bored. She shut the door and I walked straight to the desktop computer and googled how to get girls, because I knew I had a lot to learn.
2005 days were peak
 
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