"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Any one ever feel this way...

Smok1nAce

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,,im not shy or anything i just dont have energy to develop relationships with women. i see a cute girl and i say mane i gonna go talk to her but then something in the back of my mind tells me why?... Then i have to talk to her...develop a relationship and go on dates and stuff. for what?

to me sex is overrated, (maybe i just f'ed to many ho3s to realize what a actual passionate relationship feels like, if they even exist). Im 23 years old and feel like im to young for this, I still live at home ( going to finish college next year around this time and move out). I feel lonely sometimes but ik a girl isnt gonna make me feel better,

any insite fellas?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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To go out and get a girlfriend is not necessarily going to make you feel any better, I think the idea would be to challenge yourself. It isn't really about banging a bunch of ho's - a pretty empty experience at the end of the day - it's about connecting with another human being and sharing experience together and growing and challenging and loving each other (or more than one girl). Also, the DJ lifestyle and mindset doesn't at all seem exclusive to just dating or women IMO, it is about how you approach all aspects of life such as your career, anyone who is around you in life, and how you treat yourself.

"Stay hungry, stay foolish" as Steve Jobs said.
 
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Smokin- I agree with what you are saying, except that sex is overrated, been hearing people (even guys) saying that a lot. Reminds me of the movie Don Jon, he loves porn more then real life sex and he is banging some pretty hot broads. Then he meets the older women and realize what true passion "love" and sex is. At least I think that is where the movie was going
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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