"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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syncmaster

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I'd love to see JC as a mod. Despite the fact he changes names ever 6 months he is oldschool.
Theres no way in hell i'm taking up being a mod again though - i'm not cleaning up this mess but i commend JC for wanting to try.
 

The Antichrist_Star

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Originally posted by Demon
Thanks, buddy, but I'm retired. ;)
Aww... that's unfortunate. ;)

Demon... haha, it's actually good to see you back. :)

I've considered being really 'hardass' but honestly... three forths of all of the posts would probably be gone if that was the case.

****... I've been here so long I actually forgot how I stumbled upon this place... haha

*Shrugs*

Now we've got 10 PUAs maybe and 700 AFCS. We need shock collars.
Yeah, I've been reading posts lately... it's rough. :down:

AS
 

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Sadly I've been here since 2002, this place is like crack for confidence :woo:
 

Eternal

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Originally posted by JC Jerkson
Don't forget the guy with the iron fist. :trouble:


JC
Oh right...

Ok, me, sync, and Neanderthal Supersoilder.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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syncmaster

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What ever happened to NSS or Hiden Danjer?

Well - if we're gonna do a mod overhaul and and NSS, Hiden Danjer, Eternal, and JC decide to do it... i guess i'm in :D

_________
Edit:
Paradox & Vincent - you're in there too btw
 

Eternal

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Originally posted by syncmaster
LOL we sound like old war vets.... "when i was your age i had to march uphill to school... both ways! In 4 feet of snow!"

LOL
"It snowed everyday...Even in June!"

I think my Iron Fist is rusted...
 

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Originally posted by The Antichrist_Star
Aww... that's unfortunate. ;)

Demon... haha, it's actually good to see you back. :)

I've considered being really 'hardass' but honestly... three forths of all of the posts would probably be gone if that was the case.

****... I've been here so long I actually forgot how I stumbled upon this place... haha

*Shrugs*



Yeah, I've been reading posts lately... it's rough. :down:

AS

Three fourths might be gone, and that would be a great thing. There's no reason to miss something so useless anyway.

Try being a hardass. Do it for the entire month of January. See if anyone wants to go back (other than the exhausted mods who need a day off).
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Dee-Zy

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I'm still alive, just not on this board.
 

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Originally posted by JC Jerkson
If only I was mod... ;)
You'd come here and think it was 2001 again.


JC
you would never be a mod here. you're a flaming AFC

DP
 

The Antichrist_Star

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Originally posted by BrotherAP
Three fourths might be gone, and that would be a great thing. There's no reason to miss something so useless anyway.

Try being a hardass. Do it for the entire month of January. See if anyone wants to go back (other than the exhausted mods who need a day off).
All right... but if I do it... I mean really, really do it.

I don't want to hear it. :)

AS
 

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Originally posted by syncmaster
LOL we sound like old war vets.... "when i was your age i had to march uphill to school... both ways! In 4 feet of snow!"

LOL
When I was your age, the Christian god was just a minor Mesopotamian diety named "El."
 

syncmaster

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Originally posted by The Antichrist_Star
All right... but if I do it... I mean really, really do it.

I don't want to hear it. :)

AS

Do it pls... go back to the hardfast rule of post something useful, or ask a question that hasn't been asked or STFU.
We need to do some weeding.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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The Antichrist_Star

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Originally posted by syncmaster
Do it pls... go back to the hardfast rule of post something useful, or ask a question that hasn't been asked or STFU.
We need to do some weeding.
I talked to JC and I told him that I would do it.

But

When people start *****ing the people who called for this **** better be there. :)

AS
 

penkitten

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everyone acts like they want a hard as$ mod and then when you have one who does his job, everyone complains and says "oh allen dis mod him ohhh hes a horrible meanie for telling me to use the search button and/ or deleting my thread with one of these titles :
hooking up with hookers
she broke my heart and stomped that sucker flat
if love were oil id be a quart low
elvis is dead and i dont feel so well myself
can i wear pink
am i a fag
whose a big afc
snobs who only date jocks
and whose the gayest mod?"

everyone just wants to complain.
its human nature.

i miss mods like nss who tell you to stfu and not waste precious bandwidth with horrible banter that doesnt deserve discussion , use the search and pm.

of course i also like to waste bandwidth sometimes too.
 

AC/DC

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Man, I've been here since 2001... that layout was cool!

It's good to see you guys back... I'm sure you remember my old moniker "Whatsupwiddat", I"m still on the top 20 all-time posters...

I'm such a G:cool:

Anyways, I hope you guys stay around!
 

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Originally posted by The Antichrist_Star
All right... but if I do it... I mean really, really do it.

I don't want to hear it. :)

AS
"Thumbs up, let's do this. THE VIRTUAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAALLLLLLLLLL MIIIIIIIIIIIIIIND!"
 

The Antichrist_Star

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Originally posted by TheVirtualMind
"Thumbs up, let's do this. THE VIRTUAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAALLLLLLLLLL MIIIIIIIIIIIIIIND!"
All right man... if you're in... I'm in. ;)

AS
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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