"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Any of you tried instagram lately?

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Kotaix

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either a scam or they're looking for validation. If I see a woman on OLD listing her instagram I immediately swipe left
 

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I had a "add me on instagram=unmatch" as a line in my tinder bio.

Regarding this girls you talk about, there is a hell of a different between and email and a cellphone number.

You can create any email address you want in few seconds and can get rid of that even faster while a phone number is more personal.
 

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I had a "add me on instagram=unmatch" as a line in my tinder bio.

Regarding this girls you talk about, there is a hell of a different between and email and a cellphone number.

You can create any email address you want in few seconds and can get rid of that even faster while a phone number is more personal.

I was not referring to tinder.
I came across a profile on instangram feed.. saw one/two have their email address/phone numbers.
there will be an option displayed "call" when someone puts their phone number.

i was wondering why girls do this
 
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