"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Any of you guys like girls that bust your balls 2?

Fenderules

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i find that they are the far most entertaining cause if i throw them a neg hit, or just bugging them about something, they will throw something back, and you go back and forth. I mean i guess confidence in a girl is attractive as well. But it just seems more fun cause you constanly have to be on your feet.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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eniktin

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it gets too competitive

and if they overdo it it starts attacking a man's comfort level
 

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I normally don't mind when girls do this, in fact I kind of like it because it sparks a connection and definitely a conversation. Although today this girl (I'd rate her a 3-4) just couldn't stop busting my balls and singling me out. At first I didn't mind, and I thought it was funny. I shot back with some strong come backs and generally she stopped.. I was doing awesome at putting her back in place but keeping it funny and entertaining our group. Then she got onto this thing she has about guys wearing sandals. Well I happened to be wearing sandals that day and she was just running around telling everyone how disgusting it is and to stay away...

lol, it was really pissing me off. I don't usually have a problem with this so I didn't know how to react. I played it off cool and calm until she started running around the class telling everyone that my feet were gross. Then my insults became more direct and personal.. probably shouldn't have done that. Oh well though, I could careless.

I think girls busting your balls can be a great thing, but it depends on the person. If a girl plays it off all cute and funny, then I love it! But when a girl gets in my face thinking she's bad ass and better then me I just makes me smirk because she's horribly mistaken. For example.. the girl today.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Kaine

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I think the usual reaction of a girl in the presence of a dominant man is submissiveness. I can hardly recall a girl I've known who used to be ****y and funny to a guy given this context.

If anything there maybe some light teasing by her. If it's getting to the point where she escalates teasing to putting down, then you've got a powerplay going on and you haven't established your dominance with her.

I have seen girls who are snobby and *****y that can dish it out then seeing the contrast as they interact with their dominant boy friend.

Kaine
 

Mr. Delicious

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Originally posted by Finch


I think girls busting your balls can be a great thing, but it depends on the person. If a girl plays it off all cute and funny, then I love it! But when a girl gets in my face thinking she's bad ass and better then me I just makes me smirk because she's horribly mistaken. For example.. the girl today.
I agree with that 100% :cool:
 

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if this is done marginally, then its good. keeps things fresh and upbeat. but like someone said earlier, if its too much, then its no good

b
 

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depends. if she's all giggly and fun about it - cool. but if she has a mean/stern face - then she's trying to put you down.
 

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Most often, the same applies to guys, as well...

It just gets down right annoying! Especially with both of us pulling that crap...
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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