bigjohnson
Master Don Juan
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As far as I'm concerned the strippers are the smart ones inside a strip club. They're getting paid a lot for almost nothing. .....
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
I went to one near my house and since I was thinking with my ****...I could not help myself. A lap dance cost $20.00 and then you can go to the VIP room for around $200.00.Bible_Belt said:Damn, I gotta go to a strip club! :crackup: Is that what those "vip" rooms are for? Has anyone else seen that, where you get to jizz on the strippers? I did not know that existed.
hahahah.Bible_Belt said:Of course, after you bust one, you are like WTF...what a waste of money.
lol, just like a traditional date.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
There also used to be a rooftop club/bar in Key West with topless bartenders. Guys and girls as customers, probably more girls. Never seen anything like that before.kingwilliam said:There is a great strip club in Key West..............pretty crazy place... very welcoming to touch
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
This is why alot of women strip. They are not buying into the whole "my body is a temple" ideology, and see how crazy men get over boobies, and so they make that money. Just like the guy ^^^ who strips.joekerr31 said:i bet most strippers are thinking to themselves "this is just plain nuts. i can't believe these guys are willing to give me a ton of money just to look at my t*ts."
MacAvoy said:18 yrs old: hometown (Ontario legal age 19) raunchy stip club is having feature dancers from out of town, me & friends go have a good time, me & best friend go back 2nd night, stripper says to my best friend while I'm in the washroom, I can never get Macavoy to touch me while I'm dancing. I get the hint, get private dance, take her home, she's doin rails in my washroom before I rail her. Go back one more night by myself, she comes back to my place but asks if we can just get a bite to eat.
Did you nail them without paying though? That's the question.MacAvoy said:3 years ago, living crazy lifestyle, me & 2 cousins are in Toronto strip club, meet 2 strippers they met a few weeks ago in Ottawa, we tell them where we are staying, they get a room there too. We also leave for a while but tell them we'll meet them back at midnight and hook up later. We take them back to our rooms and have a gangbang.
You're supposed to tip?!speed dawg said:. Then the dude's didn't tip.
I didn't pay a dime in either of the 2 quoted scenarios.edger said:Did you nail them without paying though? That's the question.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
If they were they hot/attractive, then thumbs upMacAvoy said:I didn't pay a dime in either of the 2 quoted scenarios.
Count as actually having won.bigjohnson said:Count for what?
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.