Any of you DJ's get the "accidental game" symptom?

[the pokemaster]

Lately i've noticed i've been accidently gaming chicks i don't even intend to, ie I naturally give loads of eye contact and kino now, not afraid to say sh*t to them lol. I guess this is part of me becoming a true DJ but like, recently this has been creating problems for me. Chicks are becoming ****blocks in some situations, telling their friends to back off because they like me and they THINK i like them too, or being labelled a flirt or a player.

Is there a way to deal with these ****blocks? Or do i once again i have to change myself to get the relationships i want more easily.

 

[GaryUranga]

try not to "flirt" with the chicks you dont like?

its 1 of the curses of being so attractive

 

[the pokemaster]

lol i really don't notice it when im doing it man. when im talking to a girl im just naturally a fun person and i've made a habit of loads of kino and eye contact... its crazy, in one way im proud of myself (wow this sh*ts coming naturally now) and then i hate myself when i end up giving off the wrong impression lol.

"with great power comes great responsibility" help me develop some f*cking responsibility guys. What do you guys do?

 

[GaryUranga]

Thats great new, how naturally its becoming, Id say you have to learn to be careful with this so girls dont think you like them, I mean one thing is being attractive and another is getting them to think you like them, so there must be some signals youre accidentaly sending here that arent just the attraction cue ones. Learn to control your "powers"

 

[the pokemaster]

until them should i keep with the mystery of them thinking i like them? or should i break it to them straight?
i dont like you... but keep on trying maybe one day lol (i don't think i'll ever drop that line lol)

 

[noodle]

I'm like this with girls that i'm not too attracted to, some of them are not that bad. I don't notice it either and i think a few of them think i like them. But i guess its good practice for the more attractive girls.

 

[kev me723]

You don't have to change yourself. I'll solve your problem right here: You don't want those relationships!
ha
seriously. one headache after another.

 

[Grimple]

I am in the same boat right now. All these UG wont leave me alone. Well, they're not ugly.. they're just average. Not what I'm looking for. It is becoming a problem.

I guess all I can say is try to be more aware of what you are doing when you are around these chicks, and stop touching and flirting with them.

 

[xBoost]

I get this too. So many uglo girls come up to me. On one side its an ego boost because im getting women(? if u can call them that *evil*) chasing after me, but on the other, the fact that they are coming up kinda shows they think im on THIER level (of ugliness). I know it sounds so shallow, but ive been working hard to change my physique at the gym. I dont see why i should settle for anything less that what I desire. Ive also noticed "accidental pimping" at work. I think because we subconsciously know we dont actually want that girl we are more relaxed and natural with them. The moment we realise we WANT a girl a part of our minds holds us back from being completely in the moment. With practice i shall find a way around this. Target my DJ skills.

Take aim, sarge on. :rockon: