picard
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Is there any serious mountain bikers who also do some weight lifting in this forum? Have you guys notice any increase in strength in upper body & legs power at all?
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Are you doing some serious mountain biking, like a couple of hours a day and numerous times a week?Originally posted by picard
did you gain any bulk in the gym? I am trying to gain bulk.
what kind of weight do you use for squat? I want to increase strength in my legs
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Nope... I'm losing bulk (a bit, anyways) But I eat like a horse, so the bulk is being replaced with alot leaner, more toned body mass (I'm not losing alot of muscle, and I keep a good pump most of the time)......which is the look I prefer.Originally posted by picard
did you gain any bulk in the gym? I am trying to gain bulk.
what kind of weight do you use for squat? I want to increase strength in my legs
Depends, true MTB is mostly agility unless you get into cyclocross or some of the other races; then endurance plays a major factor. I've found that I've done better after loosing a bunch of the bulk but maintained mostly lean muscle. Being lighter AND adding power makes me very agile on the bike.Originally posted by Create Reality
I've currently set aside my biking goals for a bodybuilding program. But yes I do love to MTB and hopefully next summer I will have a good oppritunity.
I've also started training fast-twitch in my legs which can bring alot of power. Francisco, what do you think MTB is, more endurance or more sprint style?
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Are you saying that your regular cadence is 130??!! I'm not talking about short bursts but what you can hold for extended times without anaerobic.Originally posted by check_mate_kid_uk
...Remember to spin thou, dont chomp down on the pedals, to gain good pedal strokes either (if you have spd's) practice cycling with 1 foot and if you dont have spd's then cycle at a cadence of about 130...
Defintly not 130, maybe 90, hopefully not much less. But 130 is great for getting good pedeling technique, it practicly forces you in to doing it properly. I have never tried maintaining it for long, infact i bearly do it at all but when i do i notice that at that cadence you start to spin perfectly.Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
Are you saying that your regular cadence is 130??!! I'm not talking about short bursts but what you can hold for extended times without anaerobic.
Ok, that's more realistic. I hold at about 105 for typical rides of a couple of hours or more (road bike of course). For sprints and hill climbing it goes up to somewhere between 115-125 depending on the road.Originally posted by check_mate_kid_uk
Defintly not 130, maybe 90, hopefully not much less. But 130 is great for getting good pedeling technique, it practicly forces you in to doing it properly. I have never tried maintaining it for long, infact i bearly do it at all but when i do i notice that at that cadence you start to spin perfectly.