"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Any Military here?

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SleepyRangerMedic82D

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Hey, just curious if there are any Military guys or girls on this site? If so, what do you do? Where are you stationed? Prev Assignments.. etc..

I am 24 and have been a Combat Medic in the Army for about 6 years now. I am a SSG currently stationed at Fort Benning. Prior to coming here I spent 2 years at Fort Bragg in the 82nd, and 3 years out in Hawaii. I recently completed Ranger school (class 03-09) and completed Airborne school a few years ago. I hope to get back to the 82nd or over to the 173rd in Italy to take a Medical Platoon in a few years..

Doc
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Apocalypse Now

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I'm an Air Force DEP'r. I thought joining would be a relatively quick process. I was wrong, haha. :yawn:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Apocalypse Now

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SleepyRangerMedic82D said:
Apocalyspe,

Yeah the delayed entry program and just getting in, can take some time.. But it will be worth the wait in the long run..

Good luck to you..
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Thanks a lot, man. I appreciate it.


Now a question for you Military studs: does the uniform buy you any points with the ladies? The military pretty much has Alpha qualities seeping from its pores, so I would assume that ladies would instinctively gravitate toward soldiers.
 
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