"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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any luck with dating agency?

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Have you guys had any success with dating agency? I signed up for dating service and paid significant amount of cash so the agency can find me Mrs. right.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I think you're wasting your money.

That cash would have been better off spent on a PU bootcamp.

There are several, with different styles, as offered by Mystery, Badboy, Fidentia group, RSD etc...

Also, everything you need to know is here, for free in the DJ Bible.
 

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Originally posted by Derek Flint
I think you're wasting your money.

That cash would have been better off spent on a PU bootcamp.

There are several, with different styles, as offered by Mystery, Badboy, Fidentia group, RSD etc...

Also, everything you need to know is here, for free in the DJ Bible.

I only found out about this website a few days ago. I didn't even know it existed. :(

The dating agency suppose to screen out the weird women for me. I told them a list of criteria about my potential Mrs. right. I don't cruise bars therefore I have to find ways of finding lots of women fast.
 

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Lot's of other places to meet women than bars.

Also, most dating agencies might claim they screen out the looneys, but 9 times out of 10, the only qualifier is money.

A dating service might put you in touch with attractive, worthy women, but if you can't create attraction and rapport, it won't matter.

Investing in yourself by learning the skills that are required to attract women into your life and to make yourself attractive is a much better investment.

One that will last your entire life, and will come in handy in numerous, everyday situations.
 
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