"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Any lawyers here?
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
First you need to get your undergrad degree. Then you take a graduate exam designed for students interested in going to law school called the LSAT's. I believe once you start school they teach you general studies first then you can choose your specialization. If you have a criminal record, i don't think you can become a lawyer.
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Bible_Belt
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If you cant get into a top 50-100 law school, dont even bother.
I think you mean top 20, and if so I agree. Otherwise, unless you're in the top ten percent of your class, then you will barely make enough money to service the debt. Everyone thinks they will do well, but keep in mind that your grade is your rank against your classmates, and law students are the study skills all-stars. Most of them have never done anything in life except study. But if you win the grades contest by working yourself to death, you will demonstrate to big law firms that you have what it takes.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Centaurion
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Don't study law unless you love it, and you love to study. Law is a b!tch.