"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Any inventors/entrepreneurs here?

Quiksilver

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I have a goal of owning and running a small/personal business within the next three years, and owning a successful company that I can "step back" from within the next 5-8 years.

This isn't out of the blue, I've had this notion for years now, but only since entering university and realizing that I'll be released into the wild in 3 years that it's time to start acting now.

I'm wondering if there are any people here who have started their own business from scratch, and if so, how did you take those first steps?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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edger

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Quiksilver said:
I have a goal of owning and running a small/personal business within the next three years, and owning a successful company that I can "step back" from within the next 5-8 years.

This isn't out of the blue, I've had this notion for years now, but only since entering university and realizing that I'll be released into the wild in 3 years that it's time to start acting now.

I'm wondering if there are any people here who have started their own business from scratch, and if so, how did you take those first steps?
Yes, I run my own business(music industry), as well as work part-time for a company for medical, dental, and other benefits. The way I got it started, was, I met with a lawyer, who worked out all my copyright info. and registered it for me. It's relatively easy to start up. There was a fee to start it up, which wasn't too bad. The only problem is the beginning stages of the business...as you know, every business starts off slow, until you get your name out there and build up a steady clientele.
 

int3l

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what you studying Quik? My hometown was the G.C so i might have some connections...
 

Quiksilver

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Hey,

I'm working towards an International Business degree, might go for MBA afterwards, who knows. Studying at Griffith.
 

int3l

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Your location listed G.C so i assumed you'd be studying at Griffith, however, can't say i can do much for you, most of my buddies are in the medical field at Griffith and the others are students studying similar subjects. Sorry mate.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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been there done that, wrote the book. you have a couple of very valuable resources here on this forum.
 

Ken785

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edger said:
Yes, I run my own business(music industry), as well as work part-time for a company for medical, dental, and other benefits. The way I got it started, was, I met with a lawyer, who worked out all my copyright info. and registered it for me. It's relatively easy to start up. There was a fee to start it up, which wasn't too bad. The only problem is the beginning stages of the business...as you know, every business starts off slow, until you get your name out there and build up a steady clientele.
So you have like...a record label? how does that work?
 
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