"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Any inventors/entrepreneurs here?

Quiksilver

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I have a goal of owning and running a small/personal business within the next three years, and owning a successful company that I can "step back" from within the next 5-8 years.

This isn't out of the blue, I've had this notion for years now, but only since entering university and realizing that I'll be released into the wild in 3 years that it's time to start acting now.

I'm wondering if there are any people here who have started their own business from scratch, and if so, how did you take those first steps?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Quiksilver said:
I have a goal of owning and running a small/personal business within the next three years, and owning a successful company that I can "step back" from within the next 5-8 years.

This isn't out of the blue, I've had this notion for years now, but only since entering university and realizing that I'll be released into the wild in 3 years that it's time to start acting now.

I'm wondering if there are any people here who have started their own business from scratch, and if so, how did you take those first steps?
Yes, I run my own business(music industry), as well as work part-time for a company for medical, dental, and other benefits. The way I got it started, was, I met with a lawyer, who worked out all my copyright info. and registered it for me. It's relatively easy to start up. There was a fee to start it up, which wasn't too bad. The only problem is the beginning stages of the business...as you know, every business starts off slow, until you get your name out there and build up a steady clientele.
 

int3l

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what you studying Quik? My hometown was the G.C so i might have some connections...
 

Quiksilver

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Hey,

I'm working towards an International Business degree, might go for MBA afterwards, who knows. Studying at Griffith.
 

int3l

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Your location listed G.C so i assumed you'd be studying at Griffith, however, can't say i can do much for you, most of my buddies are in the medical field at Griffith and the others are students studying similar subjects. Sorry mate.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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been there done that, wrote the book. you have a couple of very valuable resources here on this forum.
 

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edger said:
Yes, I run my own business(music industry), as well as work part-time for a company for medical, dental, and other benefits. The way I got it started, was, I met with a lawyer, who worked out all my copyright info. and registered it for me. It's relatively easy to start up. There was a fee to start it up, which wasn't too bad. The only problem is the beginning stages of the business...as you know, every business starts off slow, until you get your name out there and build up a steady clientele.
So you have like...a record label? how does that work?
 
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