"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Any Indians living in India?

indiansarger

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Hi guys

Are there any Indian guys who stay in India on this forum?

I live in Calcutta and am looking for a wingman to go sarging with.

If you stay anywhere in India, please let me know. If you are in a different city, we can perhaps meet up the next time I am in your city or you are in Calcutta. I tend to go to Mumbai and New Delhi every now and then and occasionally visit Hyderabad and Bangalore as well.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Ken785

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duuude...i dont think you need to "sarge" in India...there are arranged marriages!!

anyways, just want to say Indian girls aren't my piece of cake, at all.

only thing close id definitely tap is that girl from the Pvssycat Dolls....i think shes mixed though.
 

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Ken785 said:
duuude...i dont think you need to "sarge" in India...there are arranged marriages!!

anyways, just want to say Indian girls aren't my piece of cake, at all.

only thing close id definitely tap is that girl from the Pvssycat Dolls....i think shes mixed though.
lol shes not even indian at all......but id gladly tap any of those bollywood actresses startin with aishwarya rai
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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You guys aint right....
 

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Ken - there are lots of Indian guys (and girls) who prefer not to go in for an arranged marriage.

Could we please go back to the topic of this thread? Anyone from India on this forum?
 

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I'm east Indian. Oddly, however, NO ONE believes me when I tell em I'm east indian. I get everything from mulatto to Fijian to hispanic to some crazy east asian/black mixes. You judge for yourself:

http://i102.photobucket.com/albums/m91/Treydesmon/DSC02411.jpg

I've never even kissed a brown girl before...although I did perform for a group of hot ones at a stagette this summer.

You guys gotta admit we have the funniest accents around! Russel Peters rules!
 

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Fuglydude said:
I'm east Indian. Oddly, however, NO ONE believes me when I tell em I'm east indian. I get everything from mulatto to Fijian to hispanic to some crazy east asian/black mixes. You judge for yourself:

http://i102.photobucket.com/albums/m91/Treydesmon/DSC02411.jpg

I've never even kissed a brown girl before...although I did perform for a group of hot ones at a stagette this summer.

You guys gotta admit we have the funniest accents around! Russel Peters rules!
they probably dont believe you because most indians are darker and weight like 90 pounds. you stand out with the muscles.. how long you been working out bro? whats your diet like?
 

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Fuglydude said:
I'm east Indian. Oddly, however, NO ONE believes me when I tell em I'm east indian. I get everything from mulatto to Fijian to hispanic to some crazy east asian/black mixes. You judge for yourself:

http://i102.photobucket.com/albums/m91/Treydesmon/DSC02411.jpg

I've never even kissed a brown girl before...although I did perform for a group of hot ones at a stagette this summer.

You guys gotta admit we have the funniest accents around! Russel Peters rules!
I don't believe it. However, I would say mulatto if I had to put money on it. Doing good young brother.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Ken, been training since I was 17. Never really taken more than a week and a half off since then. Only started training for aesthetics like 2-3 years ago though, was more of a power/speed guy before that.

Diet is all over the map right now man...I'm not sure what's goin on with my body, but it seems like I can eat whatever I want and get away with it. Yesterday I ate a box and a half of these ice cream bar thingies, it was something like 1500-2000 calories of crap altogether. Of course I don't do this all the time, but I have been eating horrible as of late. Other than that, when my diet is normal, i take in around 200-250 g protein per day with tons of fruits and some veges. Don't do milk and minimize complex carb sources...not a conventional diet by any means, but seems to make me feel great!
 

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Haha, guys I think you scared IndianSarger away! Jerks!!! :D
 

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Hey

I will be in Delhi in a month and start sarging there. So give me a shout.

Cheers

indiansarger said:
Hi guys

Are there any Indian guys who stay in India on this forum?

I live in Calcutta and am looking for a wingman to go sarging with.

If you stay anywhere in India, please let me know. If you are in a different city, we can perhaps meet up the next time I am in your city or you are in Calcutta. I tend to go to Mumbai and New Delhi every now and then and occasionally visit Hyderabad and Bangalore as well.
 

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indiansarger said:
Hi guys

Are there any Indian guys who stay in India on this forum?

I live in Calcutta and am looking for a wingman to go sarging with.

If you stay anywhere in India, please let me know. If you are in a different city, we can perhaps meet up the next time I am in your city or you are in Calcutta. I tend to go to Mumbai and New Delhi every now and then and occasionally visit Hyderabad and Bangalore as well.
LOL I'm an Indian, lived in Calcutta, Bangalore, Delhi. All I can say is, Indian girls are damn beautiful and sexy, and bollywood is an absolute mis-representation of indian public. Bollywood is complete sh1t. Indian guys and girls in urban big city areas are WAY more sexually open than most people think. Arranged marriages DO happen but its just a culture thing. Not everyone likes that kind of concept there.

Returning to the topic, I should be in India (New Delhi) by Dec end this year, and it'll be good to have a wingman there.. PM me sometime in Dec..

Best places to sarge in India:
Malls, Multiplexes, Movie Halls during Intermissions (lol love this one), certain shopping places near posh rich localities, colleges, schools etc.

Problems:
Girls less receptive, girls with boyfs, girls with conservative family problems, hot weather. :rolleyes:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Fuglydude said:
I'm east Indian. Oddly, however, NO ONE believes me when I tell em I'm east indian. I get everything from mulatto to Fijian to hispanic to some crazy east asian/black mixes. You judge for yourself:

http://i102.photobucket.com/albums/m91/Treydesmon/DSC02411.jpg

I've never even kissed a brown girl before...although I did perform for a group of hot ones at a stagette this summer.

You guys gotta admit we have the funniest accents around! Russel Peters rules!
If you grew out your hair, I am sure you would look indian.

There are a lot of hot indian chicks. Just check out bollywood and Im sure you will be pleased. If you are into the really light-skinned girls, a lot of northern indian chicks will do you good.
 

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i,m very happy to see this thread...let me know if any one of u are in MUMBAI/BOMBAY ...or u r going to visit bombay...lets rock and roll
 

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I'm about a 4 hour flight from India.. ha now that would be a sweet place to go sarging! Wow hooking up "djarjeeling limited" style on some train between mumbai and goa.. wow cool
 

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I'm curious what's sarging in Mumbai/Delhi like? Is cold approach very effective there?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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