"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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panasonic

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So, more or less, that's my story;

what if a girl is interested in u but when u ask her out she says "i would like to very much but i m engaged" (!!!!), and afterwards (in a time period of many weeks) continues to show her interest in a more intense way? would it be stupid to make another effort , as she has already indirectly said no? or would be stupid to quit? ( ok i m not talking about making a serious relationship)

i know its all messed up, but i m very curious since my friends say that she cant be engaged, and if not why did she say so?

what would u do and how?

thanks!1
 
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Go out as a group with her, or have her come shopping with you because you need a woman's opinion on clothes, or anything that is not a "pressure date".

Then proceed to do your thing with her.
 

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group date. tell her to go out with your friends no.. hmm bad idea. tell her to go clubbing with you and her friends and her. Use DJ skills on her friends and they will all talk about how hot you are( do not use any on her ) After this group date.. contact your target 5-8 days later asking if she wants to hit a bar. If she agrees - she is interested and finds you safer.
 
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Leave her ass alone, and get the hint that you are not wanted in her presence! It can't be more clear!!
 

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PRL I agree. She wants to be friends, she made it apparant whether or not it was the truth, that there are circumstances that would prevent the two of you being romantic. Find single/unattached girls...Your mentality reeks of desperation.....
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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hmmm

"Your mentaliky reeks of desperation"!!! Poetic but untrue, in fact i see that girl like the sweets that we were not allowed to eat before lunch or meal but i know i should have her, hehehe!!!

i ll probably follow "DJ_Dork" 's and "uniassign" 's way and maybe their suggestions as well, since.. what the fcuk i have nothing to loose, plus i m too young to back off

thanks anyway!!
 
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panasonic - she just didn't tell you she had a boyfriend but she stated she was engaged..why would she go to such extreme to tell you that she is taken...if she said she was married, you would still probably pursue her, I guess!
 

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puertorican_lover i dont which planet do u come from but havent u ever heard that women can be unfaithful (com on i dont say about marrying her..)??

ps i dont know about married ones, the difficulty level its higher
 
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