"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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panasonic

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So, more or less, that's my story;

what if a girl is interested in u but when u ask her out she says "i would like to very much but i m engaged" (!!!!), and afterwards (in a time period of many weeks) continues to show her interest in a more intense way? would it be stupid to make another effort , as she has already indirectly said no? or would be stupid to quit? ( ok i m not talking about making a serious relationship)

i know its all messed up, but i m very curious since my friends say that she cant be engaged, and if not why did she say so?

what would u do and how?

thanks!1
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Go out as a group with her, or have her come shopping with you because you need a woman's opinion on clothes, or anything that is not a "pressure date".

Then proceed to do your thing with her.
 

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group date. tell her to go out with your friends no.. hmm bad idea. tell her to go clubbing with you and her friends and her. Use DJ skills on her friends and they will all talk about how hot you are( do not use any on her ) After this group date.. contact your target 5-8 days later asking if she wants to hit a bar. If she agrees - she is interested and finds you safer.
 
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Leave her ass alone, and get the hint that you are not wanted in her presence! It can't be more clear!!
 

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PRL I agree. She wants to be friends, she made it apparant whether or not it was the truth, that there are circumstances that would prevent the two of you being romantic. Find single/unattached girls...Your mentality reeks of desperation.....
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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hmmm

"Your mentaliky reeks of desperation"!!! Poetic but untrue, in fact i see that girl like the sweets that we were not allowed to eat before lunch or meal but i know i should have her, hehehe!!!

i ll probably follow "DJ_Dork" 's and "uniassign" 's way and maybe their suggestions as well, since.. what the fcuk i have nothing to loose, plus i m too young to back off

thanks anyway!!
 
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panasonic - she just didn't tell you she had a boyfriend but she stated she was engaged..why would she go to such extreme to tell you that she is taken...if she said she was married, you would still probably pursue her, I guess!
 

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puertorican_lover i dont which planet do u come from but havent u ever heard that women can be unfaithful (com on i dont say about marrying her..)??

ps i dont know about married ones, the difficulty level its higher
 
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