So there are these two chicks who go to my gym,they always work out together. I have caught them checking me out on multiple occasions. Anyone have an idea on how to open on them? Could I still direct approach the one I'm interested in? I have no problem direct approaching one women,but I haven't tried when they have friends around.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Any ideas on opening on two girls at the gym?
- Thread starter blinkwatt
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
"Hi... listen, I've seen how you blatantly are checking me out, it's ok, it's ok,... I wish you could see more than my sexy body, and see me for me, and take some time to know me... but it's understandable, it is, after all your nature...so what's your names?"
Do this giving more attention to the not so hot babe. If you don't have a hardcore body, go ahead and do the calvin klein thing put in my gym thread. By the end of the workout you should have the hbs #, if not, next time.
Do this giving more attention to the not so hot babe. If you don't have a hardcore body, go ahead and do the calvin klein thing put in my gym thread. By the end of the workout you should have the hbs #, if not, next time.
Man this is gonna be one adreline rush next time I see her and her friend.
I will wait till I'm in the middle of a lift and I catch the hot one checking me out.
As soon as I catch her watching me I will drop my weights immediately,keep eye contact and go straight up to her and her friend and say what you said!
I will wait till I'm in the middle of a lift and I catch the hot one checking me out.
As soon as I catch her watching me I will drop my weights immediately,keep eye contact and go straight up to her and her friend and say what you said!
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
How bout you ask them... "hey can you guys spot me!?"
They'll laugh... then go "seriously, come on" (leading them back to the bench)
Tell them you each grab a side. Have them spot the sides, lol.
Then pump out a few reps, of some fat weight (you know you can do).
Then thank them, and introduce yourself.
It will setup the right 3some dynamic, with you of course being the centered spotlight. They're both balanced, so no issues of one of them getting pissed and blowing the set.
Tease' them about their "gunz" etc.
Then invite them over to relax in your jacuzzi.
(if you have one. if not... invite them anyways... then go sneak into a hotel one. They'll love the rebel random adventure of it, lol)
Peace'
They'll laugh... then go "seriously, come on" (leading them back to the bench)
Tell them you each grab a side. Have them spot the sides, lol.
Then pump out a few reps, of some fat weight (you know you can do).
Then thank them, and introduce yourself.
It will setup the right 3some dynamic, with you of course being the centered spotlight. They're both balanced, so no issues of one of them getting pissed and blowing the set.
Tease' them about their "gunz" etc.
Then invite them over to relax in your jacuzzi.
(if you have one. if not... invite them anyways... then go sneak into a hotel one. They'll love the rebel random adventure of it, lol)
Peace'
zerocelcius
Master Don Juan
blinkwater said:
NICE!
I like that approach!
I wish I had two GYM bound HB's in my gym... All I got is a bunch of CO's *Correction Officers*
Tell us how it goes!
Just a quick update;
I saw both of them at the gym today,same thing,they were caught checking me out and vica versa. Since they never even stepped foot in my side of the gym(freeweights) I didn't even bother. As I left I walked past them on the treadmill,they giggled as I caught them checking me out again. After I heard them giggle I slowly turned around and look the hot one in the eyes and then smiled and waved,she started blushing and smiled with a "oh my gosh" expression on her face! Man it's so fun being "hot"!
Now all I have to do is go up to them,"Ok,ok so are you going to finally tell me your name or what?"
I saw both of them at the gym today,same thing,they were caught checking me out and vica versa. Since they never even stepped foot in my side of the gym(freeweights) I didn't even bother. As I left I walked past them on the treadmill,they giggled as I caught them checking me out again. After I heard them giggle I slowly turned around and look the hot one in the eyes and then smiled and waved,she started blushing and smiled with a "oh my gosh" expression on her face! Man it's so fun being "hot"!
Now all I have to do is go up to them,"Ok,ok so are you going to finally tell me your name or what?"
That's all? What kind of man are you? Nevermind! Most women think they are disgustingly ugly in the gym. To a woman, sweat is the enemy of self-image. That's usually why they're there anyway: to bolster their self-image. Take advantage of that.blinkwatt said:
That's a good place to proceed. Just don't turn and run after you get a response like you did last time!blinkwatt said:
edmond
Senior Don Juan
Good Luck
Good Luck
But also focus on your work out, if you are serious is MORE important than any woman.
Good Luck
But also focus on your work out, if you are serious is MORE important than any woman."Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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Wait til they move into your vicinity. If one is attracted to you, they will move into your vicinity. Make them feel like they earned your attention.
As a matter of clarity, guess which community in which you're participating. If you are more interested in your muscles than in a ménage à trois, don't look for answers to questions that are irrelevant to you.blinkwatt said:
True, very true. It's also true that if you spread your game over several days or even weeks that the power of your game diminishes as well. If you're serious about these two girls, you'll need to play a bit harder. One thing you could do is invite these girls to your place while you're leaving. That way, any talking you do will be from behind them, if you get my drift. Nothing like a good piece of steak, except for perhaps, two pieces of steak.blinkwatt said:
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.