"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Any ideas on how to open (via text) someone you haven't seen in a month?

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Met this girl from a social group about a month ago. We pretty much had a mini date that night, but after K closing I didn't get her number b/c my phone was dead. At the time, I really didn't care b/c I had a lot of important stuff going on at the time(ie med school interviews etc.).

Anyways, I managed to get her number from her sister and now want to reopen.

Any ideas?

It's been a month, so my expectations are low. I just want to give it a shot, that's all.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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just call, if it's a month it probably takes some efforts to explain back and forth who you are… which I always find annoying and awkward. A month is a very long time.
 
Peaks&Valleys

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"hey ****, it's cali51, your sister gave me your number. I just wanted to say hi and let you know that you were thinking about me."
 
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Why are you scared to call her?
 
SamTheHobit

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Peaks&Valleys said:
"hey ****, it's cali51, your sister gave me your number. I just wanted to say hi and let you know that you were thinking about me."
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Haha this one should work.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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SamTheHobit said:
Haha this one should work.
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It does!

I use this one as well if I haven't heard from a chick in a while, and I want to test out the waters. Most of the time they'll give a responce like this:

"HA! No!! You were thinking about me!!! :):):)"

Then just take it from there.
 
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