Any hope?

[Curious321]

I’m 23, had one LTR and ended badly. Started reading DJ material and took the red pill. I now have a firm understanding of inter gender relationships and what not. Do I have any hope in becoming a DJ. Tbh I’m not a weirdo but just haven’t had much opportunity around me. Cold approaching seems like a long stretch nowadays. My use of social media is pretty basic. Do I just go into a DGAF mode and work on myself and naturally wait for opportunities to come ( although I have two friends who get laid consistently without fail and aren’t special in anyway - although they both are very good at using snapchat and have even shown me numerous nudes from different girls - both are in LTRs btw)

Wtf am I missing out on? I have a feeling I’m a late bloomer to this **** but boy do I feel like I’m abit too old now since college is over and I’m working full time.

Advice?

Someone who truly knows their **** and has been in a similar situation would be helpful. Someone who understands the dynamics of getting girls in this day and age.

Thanks

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

Wtf am I missing out on? I have a feeling I’m a late bloomer to this **** but boy do I feel like I’m abit too old now since college is over and I’m working full time.

Advice?

By late bloomer, you mean women peak early and men peak late (generally).

One of mates is 'too old' yet, returned back to college, new careers and is smashing baaaaae. Its a matter of perspective.

I recommended a new focus.

Someone who truly knows their **** and has been in a similar situation would be helpful. Someone who understands the dynamics of getting girls in this day and age.

Thanks

Imagine, you flew out to Germany. You rented a lambo or ferrari. You are going to rip it on the autobahn. Guess what? Maybe not today, maybe not tomorrow but someday, the car goes back. You like it. Its fast. Its sleek and sexy but its a rental.

Welcome to 2019 and modern dating. You don't EVER get the girl. Its a rental. Its not yours. Its just your turn. There's the savage aspect of human nature and its truly Darwin survival of the fittest. You can do your part for a better life but, do you know what that is? Much of man's purpose is blindly following his biological strategy which is dangerous as hell in the west (divorce rape, child support, false accusations, etc). Exercise common sense.

As for cold approach, most guys suck and don't do it. Furthermore, they checkout the sec a semi decent looking woman gives them the time a day despite years of the carousel. Men bank roll her and play Russian roulette with the farm. Women are entitled as ****kkk to cuck + checkout with cash and prizes. 80% of divorce initiated by women. As high as 90% of college educated women. Likely, due to the indoctrination and carousel in best years. Its not without fallout.


Its black pill. It is dying alone in a hospital bed. Its giving resources and time to a woman who's not in the mood but in her best days was jumping off dudes. This is what awaits you if you play that game of old social contract. As a single man, its a super time to be single. Feminism has women believing cratered SMV is empowering lulz.

Its not what you thought. I began my journey ovee ten years ago. Seek game. Pursue options. Vet for a wife. A decade of pickup is enlightening. You see female nature and victimhood, you can quantify the whole thing, and acknowledge how foolish monogamy is. Women having a duplicitous sexual strategy. Its carousel and cratered SMV x chasing up the dominance hierarchy and its fallback being play house with beta cuck provider. And men continue to be chained on the plantation WILLINGLY.

GO GET BAAAAAE. Just know that the game has changed and outdated sexual strategies and models to keep societal orderly have failed. March to the beat of your drum. Sink or swim. Go out on your shield.

Hotter girls are turning 18 19 20 21 every day.

And life's too boring not to try.

Life is good.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

YOU WILL BEGIN TO LEARN when you eventually have enough good and bad experiences to draw from that will provide you with the instinct and understanding of when each red pill concept can be applied with success, when it is over-thinking and when exceptions can be made to the rule.

+1 good post.

Much of what 'red pill' is has been hijacked by goofs. Peterson warned of fragmenting. You see it in gay lesbianism community. The abbreviations are growing. We see that the red pill is fragmented.

A lot of guys are delusional and cucked. I saw a guy in the community preach patriarchy but got cucked and married her lol. I will go as far as to say, much of it is nonsense.

Men need to exercise common sense. Outdated models like marriage given the prevalence of cucking and divorce rape is a bad time. Furthermore, the extraction of male resources has no time limit.

The rational male is superb. The thing is then to acknowledge, despite the fact he knows, he still married epiphany phase and a woman who is on a career field known for cuck. A lot of men know yet are still living a lie. Rollo says to do what he says not what he does. There's no magic bullet.

Guys need to go through the fire. I don't recommend my journey on my worst enemy as there's no way to go back or salvage anything. Pillage what you can in the modern era. You can evolve and go through the fire. When you get through to the other side, what you become is something else.

The assumption is that you, you live the good life then. Right? Wrong.

Think that story of Eden and the fall of man. A man follows a woman's lead and perma banishment follows. They eat of the fruit and their 'eyes were opened.' Adam eats of the fruit after his wife pursues 'being like God,' to know about good and evil. As in, the man not good enough. That the benchmark is God. Lol female logic. The book is the most red pill awareness and documents hypergamy in true form even in a paradise.

You can do XYZ action and who you are thereafter is evolved (for better or worse). Its never the same after and there's no going back. Being forged in fire is not without consequences.

I enjoy Jordan Peterson despite the fact that its blue pill. I think most men would be zeroed out and or subscribed to hedonism otherwise.

 

[Curious321]

Right. So what do you advise and how has this worked for you? My problem is a lack of women. I couldn’t care less for monogamy and I completely agree with the idea of ‘spinning plates’. How do I get to the stage of spinning plates when I have no one atm. Or is it just something that comes naturally whilst working on yourself.

I’m currently on a self improvement path but have always been curious as to why 10/20% of men have most of the women whilst the others remain single.

Pook pointed out “ women would rather share a successful man than be with a loser”

I feel this rings true when you look around you. I want to be able to have options and I want to know where exactly I am lacking in attaining this.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

Right. So what do you advise and how has this worked for you? My problem is a lack of women. I couldn’t care less for monogamy and I completely agree with the idea of ‘spinning plates’. How do I get to the stage of spinning plates when I have no one atm. Or is it just something that comes naturally whilst working on yourself.

Ground zero. Start here. Embrace humility.

i’m currently on a self improvement path but have always been curious as to why 10/20% of men have most of the women whilst the others remain single.

Because, i get girls. I am not sharing. I don't keep. I am not playing house. Its catch and release. #nextSet #micdrop

Its the pareto distribution. 80/20.

Its the Mathew principle.

Its cyclical. Female nature and hypergamy. Dudes who sling ****kkk continue to.

#metoo follows cratered SMV. Its not top form SMV 18-23 that cry wolf. Its after Hollywood discards her. Even though she is a hooker, ****ed for a part, she's a victim lol.

Pook pointed out “ women would rather share a successful man than be with a loser

YouTube rsdtyler beta male shame. Watch his 15min on Way of the superior man. Its fire.

Its that, playboy, the Christian Troy archetype gets a free pass. Beta cuck has rules + LMR + not in the mood.

I feel this rings true when you look around you. I want to be able to have options and I want to know where exactly I am lacking in attaining this.

Check rsd free tour. Inner circle. Get out. If you got resources, pay for a bc. Ho through the fire. I should have. Likely i would have saved time. Ironically enough, I wasn't ready to see this.

I started out with the end on mind. Pick up. Step game up. Acquire abundance. More sex. Vet for a wife. My eyes are open now.

Its either to smash bachelorette chicks regardless of her LTR or marriage status. Been propositioned by married women. I have no use nor any interest in the pursuit.

I was once blue pill. I have seen some stuff and I can never go back. Be warned. This life is no joke. Surrender to the process. To yoyr process. Deposit time towards that which matters. I can count on a hand the amount of awesome women I met in the past decade. I wont marry any.

I also thought that I would be a father, have a wife, and kids. Its a lie we're sold.

I can work anywhere and get by. I have no allegiance to anything. I have freedom to pursue my ambition and biz. The question is, what next?

What would make the price of admission worth while in this life (for you)? Start here.

 

[Curious321]

Yh true. I think this is all down to realisation. But you must realise there are many people in long term relationships who know how to truly hold it down. I think this comes down to vetting correctly but always marching to the beat of your own drum ( which comes from true self confidence). The two guys I know that are very good with women have LTRs but at the the same time are seeing numerous other girls. There’s nothing special about them- they have good looks good status but nothing special. I think it all comes down to self confidence, experience and truly always doing what’s best for yourself.

I myself have no true social problems and value wise, I’m doing just fine in life. My own issue is my self confidence and my lack of red pill knowledge. I think it’s all pretty simple- live your own life and do what best for you - never settle. In my own LTR o already knew half these principles without ever reading the rational male ( I was never too available and doing my own thing) however, overtime I was giving away value without recognising this.

I think although women have many options you can still be the one option she can’t let go off if you do things right ( and truthfully the game is ruthless so so should you be).

**** the moral high ground. Time to **** some bad bitches.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

Yh true. I think this is all down to realisation. But you must realise there are many people in long term relationships who know how to truly hold it down. I think this comes down to vetting correctly but always marching to the beat of your own drum ( which comes from true self confidence). The two guys I know that are very good with women have LTRs but at the the same time are seeing numerous other girls. There’s nothing special about them- they have good looks good status but nothing special. I think it all comes down to self confidence, experience and truly always doing what’s best for yourself

Guys want a XYZ magic bullet. There's no two ways around it. Develop competence in game.

I myself have no true social problems and value wise, I’m doing just fine in life. My own issue is my self confidence and my lack of red pill knowledge. I think it’s all pretty simple- live your own life and do what best for you - never settle. In my own LTR o already knew half these principles without ever reading the rational male ( I was never too available and doing my own thing) however, overtime I was giving away value without recognising this.

Its brutal. The common red pill Knowledge was passed on through patriarchy and fatherhood. Carl black label logic calls it beta-tization through 1000 concessions. Its not enough to read it. Man must 1 evolve and 2. Live it through experience.

I think although women have many options you can still be the one option she can’t let go off if you do things right ( and truthfully the game is ruthless so so should you be).

**** the moral high ground. Time to **** some bad bitches.

Women have a duplicitous sexual strategy.

Women will pick you conveniently after chads stop calling. The same girl who is not in the mood for her hubby was getting devil triangles.