Carbine
Don Juan
There is one thing I must know, why do I understand how it all works (and believe me, though I obviously don't know everything, I do know a fair amount), when it comes down to actually doing it, I suck! Actually no, even clearer, when I am around someone I am actually GOING for, I do. Hey what's going on? If I don't care about what they think of me, I can easily get them to fall for me. But here's my problem, when I go for a girl I think is hot, I don't say stuff which I normally would.
People have told me it's due to fear of rejection, but even when I don't actually care about the REJECTION part, I still can't.
I am sure it has something to do with my un-comfort around new people/people I don't know so well. That's what being a PUA is all about, being to pick up new women right? I should be able to go up to strange women and pick them up (well not every time but still). So I seriously need to sort this problem out. I need some help. i doubt that I am the only one who find it difficult to have great conversation with someone they have just met?
When I am with my friends, I am very alpha, have a natural C+F flare, can make any of them laugh with the drop of a hat, and can have long lasting conversations.
Do any of you have any tips for me that can get me to be more open to strangers/people I don't know so well? I am sitting next to a girl (for this year at school) who I think is quite attractive, but when I open with her, I find it very difficult.
Thanks very much and all the best.
People have told me it's due to fear of rejection, but even when I don't actually care about the REJECTION part, I still can't.
I am sure it has something to do with my un-comfort around new people/people I don't know so well. That's what being a PUA is all about, being to pick up new women right? I should be able to go up to strange women and pick them up (well not every time but still). So I seriously need to sort this problem out. I need some help. i doubt that I am the only one who find it difficult to have great conversation with someone they have just met?
When I am with my friends, I am very alpha, have a natural C+F flare, can make any of them laugh with the drop of a hat, and can have long lasting conversations.
Do any of you have any tips for me that can get me to be more open to strangers/people I don't know so well? I am sitting next to a girl (for this year at school) who I think is quite attractive, but when I open with her, I find it very difficult.
Thanks very much and all the best.