"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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any help would be great

theNEWDJ

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Hey everybody, i have lady toruble, but I'm workin' on it. despite my lack of sexual experience I have been relentless lately and determined to get chicks, here are some of my questions...

To get chicks do you think that good looks are more important in high school, then any other time in life?

Most girls say im cute but damnit i want them to think im a hot stud, what can I do?

I dont have my liscence and I think that has hurt me tremendously, I get so far with chicks just about to get a date then they ask if I drive, If I could then I would pick mad chicks up easy. Do you agree that not having my lisence/car/permit, is hindering my ability to get chicks?

Also I lack experience, like ive made out with a few chicks, and felt one up so i'm not a complete failure so far, but if things started getting hot and the chick was experienced would she realize that?
I know to act confident and not show my weakness, but i guess i just need some tips or something?

I appreciate anyone who helps me with my troubles. I set goals and acomplish them. I have conquered everything in my life - such as becoming an ungodly wrestler, and a good student. Although I choke up somethimes. My new theory is that I should be a don juan to achieve my goal of having a great LTR. Thats all I really want, but to get noticed by a quality chick I need to be a quality man I know I will suceed in the "love" aspect of my life
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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get your license. what are you waiting for?

you can cover up your inexperience. anything can be found on the internet if you type in the right search on google.
 

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I think you are trying to hard, and the ladies may be able to sense how desperate you are, it seems you havent got lady trouble, you have trouble getting ladies, the two things are entirley different.
 

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I'm in the same boat as you...no license and 17. Still, picking up the girls isn't hard at all; it's just that on occasion, dates are harder to pull off because you cannot access far away places. Nonetheless, it is no excuse. Get her to drive you ;).
 

Void

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How do you not have your liscense? DUI'S? DWI'S?

And if she has her liscense have her drive you...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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- Hey, same here. 17 and no license, but coming soon (not too soon :p). Get them. It's cheap. If you suck at driving, practice with your parents. Every night at, say, 9, unless you or them have other plans.

- Looks matter more than anything else if you want to get noticed by chicks. Gets you an audition, but looks are not an excuse for poor game.

- Look for tips on the net, but don't expect to get good by reading them. Obvious?

- Athletics help in the popularity department. Gets your name out there, as well as the hot bimbos.
 

theNEWDJ

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thanks, but how do you get a girl to drive you somewhere, wouldn't that make me needy of her and less in control?
 
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