"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Any guys here have luck with Mediterranean/dark haired tanned skin white girls?

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I kind of look like Drake and it seems like blondes, redheads and pale white women in general go hard for me, I've had more than enough IOIs from them.

The one group I've had the toughest time with have been more Megan Fox looking white girls with the dark hair and light tans, common look at clubs but I notice I do poorly with dark haired white women that look just slightly exotic in general compared to blondes, redheads and brown haired girls with pale skin.

So I look around and see that these girls love going for the Hitler ideal type of guy (blond hair blue eyed).

Maybe its confirmation bias but whenever I see a cute white girl going interracial, she rarely fits that Megan Fox look.

Any of you guys who aren't white or the blond hair hitler ideal look had any luck?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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