"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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any guys here have lesbian friends but not gay ones?

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i have a few lesbian friends who go out to the bar with me here and there...its cool cuz they bring alot of hot girls with them. does anybody else got lesbian friends? i hope im not the only one
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I have lesbian friends but how "Beneficial" they are is questionable. More often than not the lesbian friends i have want to compete with me as opposed to helping me out. As women who like women, they have even more to prove than the average guy player since they look to "convert" any girl who isn't at least bi. I don't really have any problems with them since we're in the same game and the fact that most of them respect my ability counts. Still unless it's a threesome at hand they won't toss me a bone unless the girls is crazy about me.
 
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Lesbian friends are worthless

all they do is get jealous because 90% of your chicks aren't gay like them


I'm glad i don't have any. You'd never get a threesome with some girl who licks carpet anyway. You'd just be watching two horny dykes freak
 

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Negative_Nancy said:
Lesbian friends are worthless

all they do is get jealous because 90% of your chicks aren't gay like them
not mine...they both dykes but they know i get a different class of women than their "normal" plus they like when i get some action, maybe u just need to check ur friends
 

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I have one straight up lesbian "friend", but she was even married at one time and I see how she looks at me and other guys so I doubt her full fledged status as a lesbo. Still, she says she only want's a woman....

She's actually HOT. As for being beneficial to pickup, I haven't really been out with her in that capacity. I would imagine that she would be a good wing though. I would even try to set it up but unfortunately a good friend of mine really likes her, so I don't even call her.

I do however know several women who are bi, and they are the absolute BEST wings on the planet, HANDS DOWN. I have met more women through these chicks than I could ever hope to meet through straight chicks, guys, or even on my own.

I think it has something to do with the fact that when it comes to women, they think more like a man, and men don't compete over women the way women compete over men. It's more like a "you saw her first, she's yours" situation. The really cool ones social proof you like crazy and even BRING you women. It's a beautiful thing.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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my gay friend hooks me up with all kinds of girls, don't know any lesbians though.
 

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Lesbian are so insecure with men, sometimes they are over confident that they are real men, even competing over girls heart, as if they can beat them. Lesbian should accept nothing beats up real men.
 

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I don't have any

I've actually never met a straight up lesbian, just a bi

But from what I hear, Some lesbians think that men would only want to talk to them in an attempt to make them "Straight" or get a threesome. So any friendly gesture could be seen as me just trying to get sex
 

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An ex of mine went lesbo for a while. Her girlfriend was a serious dike, but they were fun to party with. Maybe it's because they have issues, but all the lesbos I met were party animals.

Don't ask them in the first conversation for a threesome, though. They said about 95% of guys blurt that out right away. It's like telling a pretty girl that she is pretty - you are supposed to pretend that you don't notice.
 
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