"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Any guys here go with the short and scruffy beard?

eaglez1177

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Whats up guys. Im not really old enough to grow out a full long beard, but just wanted to hear some of your opinions on those short, scruffy, stubble beards.

Ex: http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3146/2624872137_547fdddfbc.jpg

Im currently in the process of growing something that looks kinda like the pic above. I dont really mind what the chicks say about it cuz imo, its all about how the guy pulls it off. It either looks good, or it just doesnt.

Any other thoughts?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

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For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Pulling it off when it's THAT short (not quite a beard, really) seems tricky to me. But it's really about how you feel with it.
 

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you need to post a pic!
Coz no offense you most likely aint as good looking as that guy...!

stubble can be good on some people done corectly other people NOT so much, and just looks unclean
 

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eaglez1177 said:
Whats up guys. Im not really old enough to grow out a full long beard, but just wanted to hear some of your opinions on those short, scruffy, stubble beards.

Ex: http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3146/2624872137_547fdddfbc.jpg

Im currently in the process of growing something that looks kinda like the pic above. I dont really mind what the chicks say about it cuz imo, its all about how the guy pulls it off. It either looks good, or it just doesnt.

Any other thoughts?
That dude is hot as hell. Like to take him to South Beach with me.
 

eaglez1177

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Lol guys all i did was just type in stubble scruffy beard in google and that was one of the pics that showed up. Obviously im not a freakin model but that guys beard is what im referring to.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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well peoples beards are all different. some arent full enough, different colors, thickness it all plays a part so we cant really tell you if you can pull it off or not without seeing what we're actually talking about..post a pic
 

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Usually you can only pull a short beard if your beard hair is very dense (like with spanish/italian/middle eastern etc guys).

If the beard is not thick enough, it will just look like some random hairs sticking out (much like a half-shaved armpit :D). Like the teens trying to grow beards, you know what I mean.

But try it out, you never know! It will only take you a couple of weeks anyway.
 
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