"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Ryan69 said:
...Hot girls get tons of attention in the REAL WORLD everyday. Why would they bother with profiles online ?...
They're tired of the AFC's and players that keep hitting on them using cheesy lines and trying to impress them with their cars.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Bible_Belt said:
...That's dating. Of course we are all pretending to some extent.
Even though this line is disturbing it gives me a better understanding of your point of view. I still don't agree with it but I see from what perspective you view dating and relationships.
 
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