"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Any guys do Yoga here?

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I don't think I will get many responses to this question but I wanted to see if any guys practice yoga or have at least tried it. I have good cardio health now and am stronger than I have ever been but feel something is missing. I am working on lowering my body-fat right now but need a new goal/challenge soon.

I see guys that can run far but can lift anything. Guys that push some heavy weights but might have a heart attack if they got on the treadmill. Yoga folks who look tone but I bet most can't run a mile or two. I want to combine a little of all 3 and be fit.

What type of yoga have you tried? Things you liked and didn't like about it. Any thoughts or opinions are appreciated.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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DuckFan said:
I don't think I will get many responses to this question but I wanted to see if any guys practice yoga or have at least tried it. I have good cardio health now and am stronger than I have ever been but feel something is missing. I am working on lowering my body-fat right now but need a new goal/challenge soon.

I see guys that can run far but can lift anything. Guys that push some heavy weights but might have a heart attack if they got on the treadmill. Yoga folks who look tone but I bet most can't run a mile or two. I want to combine a little of all 3 and be fit.

What type of yoga have you tried? Things you liked and didn't like about it. Any thoughts or opinions are appreciated.
I have been doing Bikram yoga for 3 years in addition to running, swimming, weight lifting (just started recently), and biking.

It is a wonderful workout and the woman in my class are incredably hot. You gain tremendous flexibility, back and leg stength with Bikram. Try it out. No cons that I can think of.

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I've started taking up yoga during the winter to help my flexibility while cycling. I've been able to see a noticeable improvement in my hamstrings and strengthening my core and back muscles.
 

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Fan27, do you take a class for the Bikram or do you have a DVD or something? I thought Yoga would be a good counter to the weights since I get that stiff/tight feeling after a while.

I am hoping there will be some hot women in class, though that's not the main reason for going. My gym has class twice during the week and once on the weekends. I think I will try it this week. I am sure it will be very embarrassing for a while but I really want the flexibility and that other kind of strength that weights can't give you.

I had ACL knee surgery in the past and never got the complete range of motion back. I am hoping it would help with that and help prevent sports injuries.

Franciso, sounds like it helped you and I haven't heard from anyone that they didn't like the results from doing Yoga.

Mctwist4, I will check out the video. Thanks


Anyone have a favorite DVD that they use at home?
 

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Oh yeah, it's definitely helped. Better balance, muscle tone is even better, faster recovery after hard workouts (both anaerobic and weight training) and also better concentration believe it or not. Plus there are a ton of hotties in yoga classes.

I won't touch those Bikram classes though. Don't get me wrong, I love scantily clad, sweaty, lithe women but I would like to be conscious to enjoy it!!! :D
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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i like yoga, but sometimes i overdue it and it hurts.
 

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I've been doing Iyengar Yoga for a while. I just bought his book "Light on Yoga" for like 10 bucks and have been following the course outlined in it.

Benefits:
Mental, I feel sharper ever since I started and more relaxed, I started feeling muscles I never knew I had, more flexibility, hmm, increased blood flow (think Viagara) better balance and endurance.

Most importantly, it has done wonders for my willpower, since I've learned to be waay more patient and the extra mental endurance has helped me a lot in life. It really takes tons of willpower to do the workout twice a day (once in the morning and once at sundown) like he prescribes it, even if you're sore like hell. I suggest you buy a heater (for the morning practice) and use it if you live in a cold place.

Peace
 

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So I finally get the balls to try it and do something different. I go to the class and wait around. The guy the leads it I guess has a flat tire and can't make it tonight. I was the only guy waiting and there was about 8 women waiting also. Not one hot chick, all older than me. oh well. There is another class Thur by a different teacher i will try. I may just have to buy a DVD or book and start at home.
 

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lol... pretty funny. Don't sweat it though (har har)

Yoga is kick-ass. I used to practice it consistently for about 6mths straight. Did great things for the body/mind. Literally it was meant as a science to prepare your body for enlightenment. Opening up meridian channels through which your life-force (chi) flows. Opening up your chakras (the energy centers of the body, through which the life force is born into existence channeling your bodies meridians.

So besides the great workout. Walk outta there sweating balls, and totally had from holding certain postures etc. It really opens up new doors of being. Higher energy levels, intuition, concentration, power in all its forms. Creates a healthy body/mind, in an individual bottom line.

Not to mention the babes sweating it out w. you in postures your dirtiest dreams couldn't conjure. So... enjoy and...

Suave On'
 

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Went to Bikram class last night (every Wed night). I Focused on relaxing my breathing and was much better able to tolerate the heat. Talked to 4 hotties. Great sessoin.

Keep shopping around until you find a class you like.

fan27
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I do yoga and pilates on my off training days.

I'm also a huge fan of Jenny Craig.
 

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Warboss Alex said:
I do yoga and pilates on my off training days.

I'm also a huge fan of Jenny Craig.

Don't forget Richard Simmons.:rock:
 

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Cool, I was just refered to Yoga by a friend a week or so back, and haven't got around to finding anything about it so I'll be taking a look at that vid. Cheers Mctwist.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I used to practise yoga every morning, its pretty cool. Itll wake you up instantly and youll have flexibility youve never dreamed of.
 
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