"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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any good tips for smiling?

jackie_legs

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I have trouble sometimes like im at the store and I see a hottie i like. so i try

to smile but i cant for some reason sometimes i just cant its not that im

scared but just cant seem to do it. so i was wondering if anyone has any

good tips they can give me.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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GloriouslyInsane

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just think "i have the knowledge to sex her up in 10mins flat" and the correct smile will come naturally
 

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Think of something really kink-mischevious... then own her with that grimace.

But I hear you.
Sometimes, fck a smile.

A solid look as a man, is plenty. Just let your eyes do it.
 

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Man your not alone on this I have the same problem. But if I come upon a lady I can smile and show my dimples but I put my dam head down like a submissive female and if at a distance I stare like a deer in headlines and think to myself hell she won't see me smiling so why the hell bother.

To beat all I have in the past 6 months paid out over $1500 on these teeth and no one sees them but the dentist and hygentist.

I just have problems smiling even in my best moods.

I am a mess :)

Gettinthere
 

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Practice! Use a mirror. When you get a smile you like try smiling, THEN looking in the mirror to see if you did it right.
The foundation of a good smile is confidence. You might have to get "in character" to do it if you're not naturally confident. Pretend you're Jack Nicholson (though not as 'the Joker'), Sean Connery, andy of those actors with a killer smile. And don't hold it too long. Let the teeh show for a sec, then just keep a wide-mouthed, close-lipped smile.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Charm&Style

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hahahahaha

ya weve all been there but its sooo easy to get the perfect smile it obviously takes practive though.

but one thing you shouldnt do is give the MISCHEIVIOUS WEASEL SMILE.
this smile is always used in movies and apperently gets the girl intreasted in you but its total BS.

girls will run away with that smile because it gets you off as a freakin sexual predator, or a weirdo.

if you want to learn to smile best thing that worked for me is look at people who are already good at it. and its not a hard thing to find lol.

after you find some good examples just put them to use in front of a mirror.
before you go out when you have your hair done, nicely groomed, and have your style on go in front of the mirror and see which smile works best.

now in my case i have come to find that smiling without my pearly whites showing works best for me...i get that awww what a cute smile.

i doubt there is one person in this world that doesnt have a smile that fits them....you just have to find it.

a smile doesnt consists of flashing your teeth, its a sign of showing emotion that your a happy, cute, outgoing, alpha maile.

best of luck to you guys
 

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Charm&Style said:
hahahahaha

ya weve all been there but its sooo easy to get the perfect smile it obviously takes practive though.

but one thing you shouldnt do is give the MISCHEIVIOUS WEASEL SMILE.
this smile is always used in movies and apperently gets the girl intreasted in you but its total BS.

girls will run away with that smile because it gets you off as a freakin sexual predator, or a weirdo.

if you want to learn to smile best thing that worked for me is look at people who are already good at it. and its not a hard thing to find lol.

after you find some good examples just put them to use in front of a mirror.
before you go out when you have your hair done, nicely groomed, and have your style on go in front of the mirror and see which smile works best.

now in my case i have come to find that smiling without my pearly whites showing works best for me...i get that awww what a cute smile.

i doubt there is one person in this world that doesnt have a smile that fits them....you just have to find it.

a smile doesnt consists of flashing your teeth, its a sign of showing emotion that your a happy, cute, outgoing, alpha maile.

best of luck to you guys
After I posted I left to go to the store. When I was leaving the store the manager came in my view and at a distance we locked eyes and she looked at me stoned faced but until I smiled and as I walked by her I kept eye contact and asked how is your day going? She smiled back good and asked how was mine and I said like I always do real good, real good. I can never stop at just one real good sentence like my day is so dam happy and good but I'm gettinthere.

Anyway, if I tried to show my teeth I'd look like a freak like the joker on the old Batman series. My mouth won't open in that way to show my teeth but I have dimples that make up for them that the ladies seem to find attractive.

Good post.

Gettinthere
 

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Promptly go to your nearest cosmetic dentist and shell out 12k for porcelain veneers. This will give you a fabulous smile, and all the ladies will be falling at your feet.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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^^^ So long as they don't look like veneers... :crackup:
 

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hey guys, while we are on the same topic, i am having trouble walking, i mean, is it left foot, then right, then left, then right?? ORDER IS CONFUSING ME!! (sarcasm for those who don't know it when they see it)
 

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I majorly used to have this problem as well. I fixed it by watching a whole bunch of funny movies. At first the results were slow, but in time I was able to smile on demand, and not the kind of fake a$s smiles you see at beauty pagents, and also not the psychotic pervert smile, but a niced relaxed smile. The thing with smiling is that it has to be genuine--it can't be forced- and in order for it to be genuine you have to try to not force yourself to smile, but do so naturally. Hard to explain but try doing what I did, it may help. :up:
 
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