death_wish. .
Banned
lookin for some good hard rock to push the weights while listening to
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
don't have spotify, and i wanna hear from my fellow DJ'sUse the search in Spotify. So many good playlists
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
9.99 a month. Worth every penny. They have podcasts in there too.don't have spotify, and i wanna hear from my fellow DJ's
add Whitechapel - Dementia, some Kublai Khan and DevildriverNow we're talking my language.
Some albums that rev me up some.
Pantera - Vulgar display of power & Re-inventing the steel.
Metallica - And justice for all.
Megadeth - Rust in peace.
Korn - Issues & The path of totality
Biohazard - Urban discipline.
Monster Truck - Furiosity.
Papa Roach - Infest
Slayer - Undisputed attitude & South of Heaven
Kyuss - Blues for the red sun & Welcome to Sky Valley.
Slash Featuring Myles Kennedy - Apocalyptic Love.
Happy to suggest more once you've gotten through that lot.![]()
you have a great taste in musicPantera, Slayer, Fear Factory, Sepultura....stuff like that. And of course great death metal like Death, Suffocation, Deicide
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Thank you! I am a really big fan of metal. I would also suggest to the person Helmet (Meantime album) and Meshuggah for workouts.you have a great taste in music
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.