"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Any good forums about leadership and management?

MillerMan

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Just as the title says.

I recently changed employers and my new position has more leadership responsibilities than my last one and I'm looking for people to bounce ideas off of. I've been studying leadership for a while so I think I have a pretty good base but this is my first real official position. There will be a maximum of 5 or 6 guys under me at any one time so its not an entire army but I still don't feel comfortable winging it, ya know.

Also, anyone else in a similar situation?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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i'm trying to find a job in management and with little experience it's hard. I've been getting some interviews but haven't landed anything yet.
 

olivia751

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Hello,

For the good leadership quality you can also take help any organization who provide the training on the leadership and management. Or you can also take help from the leadership books.



Regards,
Olivia
 

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What kind of work are you going into? My experience has been in the finance industry, and for that, I'd recommend the forum WallStreetOasis.

For general leadership books, I recommend:
  • Winning, by Jack Welch -- Great book, very real world-oriented and practical. Written by one of the best CEO's of all time who turned General Electric, which was a struggling company competing in too many industries and not dominating at any, into the titan that it is now...unless this new guy Immelt screws it up; Immelt is a joke compared to Welch
  • Winning: The Answers, by Jack and Suzy Welch -- A sequel to Winning and a very good book as well, by Jack and his MILF of a wife
  • The Art of War by Sun Tzu -- Ancient Chinese philosophy text, great reading. Get a good translation
  • 48 Laws of Power by Robert Greene -- long, but definitely worth reading

If you only have time for one of the books, make it Winning. Start with that one, then go down the list.

Really, there are a lot more great books, but that should get you started. If you're in a generalist management position as you said, I'd recommend regular reading of the Harvard Business Review, which you should be able to get in the business magazine section of pretty much all respectable bookstores. What kind of business are you in? I'd recommend reading at least one business periodical on a regular basis just to be in tune with what is going on around you...I like the Wall Street Journal and Bloomberg.com. Bloomberg.com is free, but it is pretty finance-heavy, so if you're not in the finance industry, it might not be as relevant. The Wall Street Journal is a bit expensive, but it's a great publication, not just for business news; it's great for world news and political developments as well. They even have a pretty good arts & leisure section, and now a sports page.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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