"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Any good books you can recommend?

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I know this is mainly a site to guide men in dating women. Especially if I use the word "Alpha male"

However I want to become Alpha, not just to get women but to improve my life. Like, I want to influence and lead people, have loads of networks, connections, acquaintances, friends and whatnot.

All the while being Alpha and not buying into "be nice and smile to everyone" stuff.

Anyone?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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The Mack Within By Tariq Nasheed. I have read this book multiple times. Great read.
 
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Get these books " How to become an alpha male - John Alexander, The art of Mackin, The Mack within, The elite way - Tariq Nasheed, The Plan - Tony Clink, The Mystery Method - Mystery, Magic Bullets - Nick Savoy.......
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Well,thanks for providing useful information...I really like this kind of informative post...Please keep sharing like these useful information with us...Keep it up...!
 
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Thank you all for the answers! I thought this thread is dead

CJ 101 said:
Get these books " How to become an alpha male - John Alexander, The art of Mackin, The Mack within, The elite way - Tariq Nasheed, The Plan - Tony Clink, The Mystery Method - Mystery, Magic Bullets - Nick Savoy.......
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Isnt this more of a PUA/getting girls type of material? I want something that is dynamic
 
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The 7 habits of highly effective people by Stephen Cuvvy
Sink or Swim by Duncan Goodhew
The Victory Unlimited Battle Plan by Victory Unlimited

http://victoryunlimitedshow.com/the-victory-unlimited-battle-plan

VU is one of our own, and he still posts on here frequently . That fella has a way of explaining the way men, women, and life works like nobody else. This book has kicked me in the ass and changed my whole worldview. It really was like a electronic "man up, military-style, makeover/boot camp."

But be warned - Its a BIG book. About 600 pages. It's a wealth of knowledge, but funny as hell sometimes though too.
 
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Anything by Anthony Robbins.

Frogs in to Princes By Bandler and Gringer... anything by them really

Look for books about NLP
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Alastair Humphreys: Moods of Future Joys and Thunder and Sunshine. Stories from a man who cycles around the world. From the way he's writing, he probably is a total wimp. But then again he cycled through Africa and Siberia on his own.

It's fricking inspiring. I've done some cycle touring too and this guy writes perfectly how you're feeling on the road - of course 10x more extreme than what I did. It's a book full of REALNESS, no pretending, no philosophy, no fancy thoughts of being manly, it's the truth and nothing but. It feels so alive, and when you read it, it makes you feel alive.

He's a perfectly ordinary guy, no DJ, not suave, no nothing, but this nutcase cycled around the world. And when I've saved enough money I will do it too.
 
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How come no one has mentioned Think and Grow Rich, and the 48 Laws of Power? Those two are like Successful Sh*t 101!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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