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Hi so-suavers, I have a financial dilema... maybe you can throw down your opinions and I'll maybe get some insight into what I should do for the best.

I live in vancouver Canada, the house prices here didn't bomb like in the US and some other places, it is however the most over priced city in N. America at the moment though, and you have to have a doctors income to buy a place here... theres a good chance its way over priced and a price correction is on the way? I read its the #3 most expensive city on the planet.

I bought a house here 3 years ago. I rent out most of it and live in part of it. The renters pay approx two thirds of the expenses (mortgage, taxes etc). I end up paying for the part of the house I live in about what it would cost me to rent if I was a tenant. So far so good I think.

When I bought the place 3 years back, I'd been travelling for 6 months of each of the 2 years previous. These were the 2 years that the mortgage company wanted to look at in order to decide wether to lend to me or not. My credit was medium.

I didnt actually have any of my own money to put down, bit I did have an apartment that I sold for 30 grand profit.

Because I wasnt the greatest proposition to the lenders and because here in Canada its the rule. If you have less that 20% down you have to insure the mortgage with a government aproved lender.

The premium you pay depends on how much you have down, in my case 5% (due to manipulating some figures) so the premium was high, but the lender is guaranteed their money if I default and that in turn makes me a safer bet and therefore I was offered a much better interest rate, which kind of takes care of the premium IF you have the mortgage long term (if you sell you forfeit the premium, which was about 18k)

So I ended up selling the apartment, my sister lent me 20 thousand, and the previous owner of the house carried a 2nd mortgage of 50 thousand at 12% which I pay interest only on ($500 a month)

I knew it would be a stretch but I thought I can do it. Also Im in the renovation business so I can add value to the house and maintain it myself.

Three days after I got the mortgage my youngest brother took his own life over in the U.K. besides throwing my head into a huge twister, I had to go to the UK at a time when I was really having to make this deal work, getting the place rented out in order to make the numbers work.

Houses are f*ing expensive here and when all the dust had settled I ended up owing
Visa card $20K ....10.5%
sister 20k 7%
2nd mortgage 50k ...12% interest only
Misc taxes and robbing peter to pay paul 10k ...various interest and penalties

total 100k + interest and penalties

BUT the renters still pay 2/3 of the costs, and I pay the other third, and Ive got to live somewhere.

Now the interest on the visa, sister and 2nd mortgage is quite a lot each month and thats before I pay anything off the principal.
I figure if I paid a thousand bucks a month I'd probably be paying it off for 15 years, and with the interest I paid, I'd probably pay around $60 thousand dollars more in interest. (im guessing that. It could actually be a lot more)

The good part is that the house has gone up in value about 200 thousand since I bought it.

If I sold now I could pay everybody off, and still likely have 100k left over.

In reality though I put the 30 K from the apartment I sold into the deal and I've probably put 80 k into it in renovations and sweat equity. So really Id just get my 30K from the apartment back + paid for my sweat equity.

Im not sure what to do. I could sell, have peace of mind and a 100k in my pocket. Then go and rent again and lose any gain the place might make, + the renters paying down the mortgage. BUT have the 100k instead of the huge pain in the asz debt of 100k. BUT pay rent of say 15k a year instead of paying a mortgage down.

I could hold it, struggle to pay the debt load that Ive got. Not have to pay rent and have the revenue from the renters. BUT if the house prices tank, be left with a lemon if say It became a real renters market and I couldnt rent to cover my payments.

What to do? in the end I think there's no clear cut mathematical answer... it;s kind of as broad as it is long. More of a personal lifestyle decision? do you want the freedom and a 100k or the long term, lot of pressure but maybe come up trumps in your old age??
 

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Sell it all and go live in the country. You city people are such trendy lemmings, "I'll pay $500,000 for this box on .1 acres because everybody else wants it." OHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHKKKKKKKKKKKKKK

It's an expensive lesson but it sounds like quite the albatross.
 

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Strugling to just get by is not a life well lived. Just sell the place and take the money, move out from the city, not struggle paying off a cheaper place and be a lot happier. Thats what i would do. :)
 

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I agree with the other posters. You should sell it.

Vancouver is one of the hottest markets right now but that could quickly change. You don't want to be left holding it if the market changes.

Your credit card debt is ugly and at top rates. I think your debt will grow quicker than any appreciation because you're probably near the top of the market.

Don't get caught holding when the music stops.


Cheers!
 

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romangod said:
I agree with the other posters. You should sell it.

Vancouver is one of the hottest markets right now but that could quickly change. You don't want to be left holding it if the market changes.

Your credit card debt is ugly and at top rates. I think your debt will grow quicker than any appreciation because you're probably near the top of the market.

Don't get caught holding when the music stops.


Cheers!

Thanks romangod, I'm thinking along the same lines. Although my family and my business are here so I'll have to rent a place, and if I do thats expensive to.
I think sellings the best bet, rent a place for a bit and see if the bottom drops out of it.

Debt is all gone and have some good times!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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englishman said:
Thanks romangod, I'm thinking along the same lines. Although my family and my business are here so I'll have to rent a place, and if I do thats expensive to.
I think sellings the best bet, rent a place for a bit and see if the bottom drops out of it.

Debt is all gone and have some good times!
Not a doubt in my mind you should sell and sell it now. The housing market there will fall eventually, and fall hard. Houses are still so overvalued, and once the govt stimulus in the US ends, they will fall again, which should take Canadian prices down as well. Right now you are barely getting by with your house worth top dollar. What happens if/when the housing market collapses there and you still owe all your debt AND are down on your house? BK is what happens.

Sell the house, pay off your debts, start over.
 

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OzyBoy said:
Strugling to just get by is not a life well lived. Just sell the place and take the money, move out from the city, not struggle paying off a cheaper place and be a lot happier. Thats what i would do. :)
cheers for the input. I got into it thinking a struggle now to get the place up and running would create a business renting rooms to students, and give me a place to live.
One day the mortgage is paid off by the students and I live mortgage free in a house thats maybe worth a million by then.

If the market flops its still not the end of the world as it only really matters if you want to sell it in the 'flopped' market. If your still living in it and the students are paying your mortgage then not to bad.

I think its the other debt that Ive got that will make decide to sell it, pay off the stuff that would otherwise take me forever to pay off.

Could be worse, I could come out of it with zero or a negative debt. Instead I think i'll be debt free and 100 thousand in my pocket.
 

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I'm off to work........ feeling good about the thought of selling this house!!!

:cheer:
 

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cordoncordon said:
Not a doubt in my mind you should sell and sell it now. The housing market there will fall eventually, and fall hard. Houses are still so overvalued, and once the govt stimulus in the US ends, they will fall again, which should take Canadian prices down as well. Right now you are barely getting by with your house worth top dollar. What happens if/when the housing market collapses there and you still owe all your debt AND are down on your house? BK is what happens.

Sell the house, pay off your debts, start over.
Thanks cordoncordon... with this house though the tenants pay the mortgage, so its covered, it brings in 50 thousand a year in revenue, thats about what the mortgage payements are.

Before I rented at 15 thousand a year, this way I live rent free and pay my mortgage down.

If the price drops then it only really affects me if I want to sell when the market is down.
Thats something I might want to do though, and I think thats why Im going to off load it now while the market is high.

Although that does mean I'll have to go pay someone else 15 thou a year rent again, and thats 150 thousand over the next ten years as opposed to collecting half a million (50 thousand x 10 years) in revenue off my tenants over the next ten years.
 

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englishman said:
Although that does mean I'll have to go pay someone else 15 thou a year rent again, and thats 150 thousand over the next ten years as opposed to collecting half a million (50 thousand x 10 years) in revenue off my tenants over the next ten years.

You're not taking into account the interest you'd be paying on your debt for the next ten years. Not knowing the particulars, you might be paying close to that half a million to service your debt.

You might want to consider selling it and staying as a tenant/manager. You'd handle everything for the new owner and they'd give you a break on the rent.


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romangod said:
You're not taking into account the interest you'd be paying on your debt for the next ten years. Not knowing the particulars, you might be paying close to that half a million to service your debt.

You might want to consider selling it and staying as a tenant/manager. You'd handle everything for the new owner and they'd give you a break on the rent.


Cheers!
Yep its the interest thats the deal breaker, Ill take my 200 thousand that I'll likley make, pay off the 100 thousand I owe, stash the other 100 thousand and then im off on a long holiday.
 

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I would personally sell, for a variety of reasons.

First, a lot of your debt is pretty high interest, and as you mentioned you'll be paying for it for a long time at this rate.

Second, real estate in Canada is obviously in a bubble, and Vancouver is probably the worst. It's absurd and won't last any better than California/Vegas/Florida, and in fact I'd expect things to start cooling down pretty dramatically SOON between the HST coming to BC, new mortgage rules, and the coming interest rate increases.

Might you miss some of the run-up if you sell now? Yeah, probably. But it sure beats being stuck on the downside of the peak. Maybe you'll even get lucky with your timing and be able to buy back a better house in a few years for less.

Rent for now or move somewhere cheaper.
 

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SmoothTalker said:
I would personally sell, for a variety of reasons.

First, a lot of your debt is pretty high interest, and as you mentioned you'll be paying for it for a long time at this rate.

Second, real estate in Canada is obviously in a bubble, and Vancouver is probably the worst. It's absurd and won't last any better than California/Vegas/Florida, and in fact I'd expect things to start cooling down pretty dramatically SOON between the HST coming to BC, new mortgage rules, and the coming interest rate increases.

Might you miss some of the run-up if you sell now? Yeah, probably. But it sure beats being stuck on the downside of the peak. Maybe you'll even get lucky with your timing and be able to buy back a better house in a few years for less.

Rent for now or move somewhere cheaper.


Thanks smoothtalker, It sounds like solid advice from a knowledgeable guy that knows the situatuion here in Canada, HST etc...

I've been weighing up the pros and cons and I decided to sell. Vancouver real estate surely must be coming to some kind of a correction.

I agree also that I should get on with it sooner rather than later! I'm onto it now.

Also thanks to all the guys on here for your replies and advice/opinions.
 

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Fill us in with updates as they happen! Good luck! :up:
 

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Hi all, update on the house;

I think I found a buyer. It will be a private sale as in not advertised through the real estate companies and so no realtor fee to pay. Buyer will assume my mortgage so no penalty, will also pay 50 thousand more than if I put it on the open market, on the understanding that there are 7 furnished bedrooms with good tenants in place.

I'll end up debt free with a bit of cash on hand. All in all it wont have been a financial success.
If I add it all up I would have been ahead had I just rented a place and worked as hard as I did to reno this place.

Anyway hindsight is always 20/20 and I'm OK to come out of it with a clean slate, good credit, my renovation business still making me good money, and still a handsome basta7d.

I learned a lot too. Also prior to buying this house I was living in a dumpy house on my own. In this house I rent out rooms to foreign students and Ive probably had 80 or so staying here over 3 years. A lot of them I'm still in touch with and a couple of the older ones that were here I got frisky with. I learned a lot about the nature of people and the similarities in nationalities too. I'll probably visit some of the peeps I've got to know in Europe and Asia.

So financialy so so / life experience not bad - Hard f@ckin work...way too much!

I dont feel good about this venture not turning out to be a $ hit, but you know I could have been really carefull and sat at some sh1tty job and living in an apartment. Instead I think I boldly went about making something happen, I'll take that along with me and next time I'll temper that enthusiasm with the some cold hard analytical look at the numbers first!
 

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A final update for anyone who might be interested in this thread and how it ended.
SamePendo messaged me a while back to see how it all went down in the end.

I had a buyer lined up as my mortgage interest rate and payments were to high and I had the secondary debt and no way to pay it off.

I tried one last mortgage broker just for the hell of it. Broker was great, knew of an appraiser that could 'get the house to the right appraised value' in order for me to get a new mortgage at a way lower rate.

The new mortgage is hooked up to a line of credit, I can use what I pay off of the principal of my mortgage each month to pay down the high interest debt I have.
Also I live in a smaller part of the house now and rent out the rest, after the mortgage is paid I have around $1600 left to pay down the high interest debt too on top of this line of credit deal.
I'll be free of the high interest debt in 3 years and then after that I should start to have income from the rents, as opposed to paying off the high interest debt.
As long as I own the house I should have income from it, even if thats for 40 more years.
I have good cash flow from this house so even if interest rates go up considerably I should be able to ride it out.
Eventually with inflation over the years the rents will rise a bit each year, wages too and the mortgage amount owed will go down...

In conclusion I'm OK with how it turned out, lot of work, quite a risk and a headache at times, but I think I have a pretty good asset now, probably a retirement plan.
 
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