"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Any european DJs out there?

Dirty D

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Since I'm from the Netherlands and have only seen a few UK people around here, I was just curious: who's from Europe too?

Belgium, Germany, France, UK, Spain?
I'm quite the traveler..so do let me know :wave:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Dedication

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I can't believe it! A fellow dutchman!

How are you doing man? We really need more of our kind.
 

Dedication

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No man you got it wrong :p what they say is: European girls aren't fat. European girls aren't backstabbing cheaters! Its all positive about european! What can i say? We rock!
 

Smack

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mr_elor said:
Nice to have guys from all over though, escpecially when you get posts saying "European girls do this/that..." with nothing to back it up.
Yeah. Americans are mostly extremely ignorant of Europe and things European and thus make retarded generalisations a lot about 'European' women. They just don't realise that the girls in France are going to be different from the ones in Germany, Italy, Russia, Bulgaria, etc.
 

Dedication

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Hey Dirty D whats happening!

You mentioned that you traveled is that part of your job or are you already retired? It would be awesome if you where a 65 year old player pimp.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Janez

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I'm from Slovenia, not your area of interest. ;)

But I can assure you our women are easy for foreign people. At least it seems so for me :D
 

spainlover

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Heyy its da dirty man! we have to keep on talking about the online game bro! ;)
 

Al Moh.

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Hey I'm from Hamburg, Germany, so if you happen to come here any time, make sure to tell me ;)
 

John888

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I'm from HOlland too and I travel alot too.

I haven't read this forum too much and I don't know who you are? PUA? AFC? If you need any help or want to go partying let me know :D

I'm off during the week a lot..
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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cedd

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Hi,
I'm from France, where girls are beautiful and wines so tasty.:p

cheers
 

Captain Harlock

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I'm from the Netherlands as well. no money to go out though. I'll be going on a short holiday in may though, to Ireland.
 

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Flying dutch man arrive's! Let a note behind when you're going out.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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