"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Any correlation between where in the US a guy is from and his game?

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I notice that places like California produce a ton of slayers and guys that clean up but I also notice that Texas produces quite a few alpha males as well. It seems like I see Texas guys commonly AMOGing other southern guys for the hell of it.

Any correlation?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Where they are from? Not so much. Where they ARE, definitely. Every city is different.

Texas has a bunch of guys with beards and flip flops who think they are Alpha.
 

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I don't know but I'm from NYC and girls from other states especially the south find this out and find me way more interesting but being in nyc itself should give you the best game and experience has to offer
 

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SoCal* Relative to the rest of the country, they have far more exposure to hotter girls so they're operating from a place of abundance & are generally more unreactive; plus, California is generally pretty sex-positive and less religious than the Bible Belt or the Rust Belt so they have less hangups going in.

Southerners are hit or miss but generally have too many societal hangups to be anything other than efficient serial monogamists. Guys from the midwest are the worst (scarcity, religiousity + small town values). Northeast city guys are usually hella aggressive & easily distractable--get them qualifying & they don't stop. Texans are reactive & easy to get to clown themselves out.

Guys from Australia kill it in the states--California-type vibe & the accent. But really, regardless of where you're from (except less romanticized states like Ohio or Wisconsin or Kansas), you get a boost when traveling in other regions.
 

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Game is different depending on where you live.

In LA you need club game, street game, a lot of money (helps but not necessary) and looks.

In Kansas, you need a lot of family connections, a high SMV in high school, and a willingness to get married at the age of 22.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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SoCal* Relative to the rest of the country, they have far more exposure to hotter girls so they're operating from a place of abundance & are generally more unreactive
I think that is why you typically see a high relational turnover too. OLD. Social spheres. Professional networks. People are swimming in options here. With options like that, why settle? Plates are dropped all the time. Can I get an AMEN? :D

Just look at how much fun Cali 1970 is having here:
 
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SoCal* Relative to the rest of the country, they have far more exposure to hotter girls so they're operating from a place of abundance & are generally more unreactive; plus, California is generally pretty sex-positive and less religious than the Bible Belt or the Rust Belt so they have less hangups going in.

Southerners are hit or miss but generally have too many societal hangups to be anything other than efficient serial monogamists. Guys from the midwest are the worst (scarcity, religiousity + small town values). Northeast city guys are usually hella aggressive & easily distractable--get them qualifying & they don't stop. Texans are reactive & easy to get to clown themselves out.

Guys from Australia kill it in the states--California-type vibe & the accent. But really, regardless of where you're from (except less romanticized states like Ohio or Wisconsin or Kansas), you get a boost when traveling in other regions.
I think Aussie dudes are overhyped in the US and a ton of midwestern dudes have tight game.
 

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I think Aussie dudes are overhyped in the US and a ton of midwestern dudes have tight game.
Possibly. I’m extrapolating from the relatively small sample size of guys who make their way to my city.
 
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