"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Any correlation between where in the US a guy is from and his game?

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I notice that places like California produce a ton of slayers and guys that clean up but I also notice that Texas produces quite a few alpha males as well. It seems like I see Texas guys commonly AMOGing other southern guys for the hell of it.

Any correlation?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Where they are from? Not so much. Where they ARE, definitely. Every city is different.

Texas has a bunch of guys with beards and flip flops who think they are Alpha.
 

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I don't know but I'm from NYC and girls from other states especially the south find this out and find me way more interesting but being in nyc itself should give you the best game and experience has to offer
 

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SoCal* Relative to the rest of the country, they have far more exposure to hotter girls so they're operating from a place of abundance & are generally more unreactive; plus, California is generally pretty sex-positive and less religious than the Bible Belt or the Rust Belt so they have less hangups going in.

Southerners are hit or miss but generally have too many societal hangups to be anything other than efficient serial monogamists. Guys from the midwest are the worst (scarcity, religiousity + small town values). Northeast city guys are usually hella aggressive & easily distractable--get them qualifying & they don't stop. Texans are reactive & easy to get to clown themselves out.

Guys from Australia kill it in the states--California-type vibe & the accent. But really, regardless of where you're from (except less romanticized states like Ohio or Wisconsin or Kansas), you get a boost when traveling in other regions.
 

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Game is different depending on where you live.

In LA you need club game, street game, a lot of money (helps but not necessary) and looks.

In Kansas, you need a lot of family connections, a high SMV in high school, and a willingness to get married at the age of 22.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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SoCal* Relative to the rest of the country, they have far more exposure to hotter girls so they're operating from a place of abundance & are generally more unreactive
I think that is why you typically see a high relational turnover too. OLD. Social spheres. Professional networks. People are swimming in options here. With options like that, why settle? Plates are dropped all the time. Can I get an AMEN? :D

Just look at how much fun Cali 1970 is having here:
 
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SoCal* Relative to the rest of the country, they have far more exposure to hotter girls so they're operating from a place of abundance & are generally more unreactive; plus, California is generally pretty sex-positive and less religious than the Bible Belt or the Rust Belt so they have less hangups going in.

Southerners are hit or miss but generally have too many societal hangups to be anything other than efficient serial monogamists. Guys from the midwest are the worst (scarcity, religiousity + small town values). Northeast city guys are usually hella aggressive & easily distractable--get them qualifying & they don't stop. Texans are reactive & easy to get to clown themselves out.

Guys from Australia kill it in the states--California-type vibe & the accent. But really, regardless of where you're from (except less romanticized states like Ohio or Wisconsin or Kansas), you get a boost when traveling in other regions.
I think Aussie dudes are overhyped in the US and a ton of midwestern dudes have tight game.
 

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I think Aussie dudes are overhyped in the US and a ton of midwestern dudes have tight game.
Possibly. I’m extrapolating from the relatively small sample size of guys who make their way to my city.
 
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