Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Sounds good. I also think knowing about pick up comes in handy since it's important to get lots of hot chicks in your client base.iqqi said:You'd love it, Chris. But you have to be outgoing all of the time, and very social to everyone.
It is fun, but not as easy as it looks.
You get mad b!tches though!
Just not high quality...
You obviously know nothing of the club industry.aldaris said:if you have to promote your joint it sucks. the in venues never promote.
My question is what are the pros and cons of being a club promoter and whats the best way to get your foot in the door?iqqi said:What is your question?
You want to know how to get your foot in the door?
And why do you want to do this?
Money? Girls? Social life?
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
To answer your question here, not everyone is doing it because not everyone can.ChrizZ said:The only thing that keeps me wondering is why not everybody is doing it cuz you basically get paid to party and to make friends.
It all sounds kinda fishy to me.
and you do? your entire thread on how great vegas is still has me laughing. you made vegas sound like moscow. the nightlife you know about is aimed at the dregs of society who show up in vegas so that they can be somebody for the weekend. vegas is corporate hell. vegas was cool when the jewish mob controlled that town. now it is just a bunch of jewish ceo's that run it.PRMoon said:You obviously know nothing of the club industry.
Sing your songs little song bird.aldaris said:and you do? your entire thread on how great vegas is still has me laughing. you made vegas sound like moscow. the nightlife you know about is aimed at the dregs of society who show up in vegas so that they can be somebody for the weekend. vegas is corporate hell. vegas was cool when the jewish mob controlled that town. now it is just a bunch of jewish ceo's that run it.
now you can go offer advice to some little boys on how to be a superstar nightlife stud. about the only people who listen to you on here are the little kids. should tell you something.
I have to agree with this. The city which have the clubs/bars that I frequent never advertise or promote. They let word of mouth do it for them. They make sure the atmosphere is right and people want to be there. Then friends tells friends. These places are ussually the most crowded and the nicest.aldaris said:if you have to promote your joint it sucks. the in venues never promote.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.