I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Sounds good. I also think knowing about pick up comes in handy since it's important to get lots of hot chicks in your client base.iqqi said:You'd love it, Chris. But you have to be outgoing all of the time, and very social to everyone.
It is fun, but not as easy as it looks.
You get mad b!tches though!
Just not high quality...
You obviously know nothing of the club industry.aldaris said:if you have to promote your joint it sucks. the in venues never promote.
My question is what are the pros and cons of being a club promoter and whats the best way to get your foot in the door?iqqi said:What is your question?
You want to know how to get your foot in the door?
And why do you want to do this?
Money? Girls? Social life?
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
To answer your question here, not everyone is doing it because not everyone can.ChrizZ said:The only thing that keeps me wondering is why not everybody is doing it cuz you basically get paid to party and to make friends.
It all sounds kinda fishy to me.
and you do? your entire thread on how great vegas is still has me laughing. you made vegas sound like moscow. the nightlife you know about is aimed at the dregs of society who show up in vegas so that they can be somebody for the weekend. vegas is corporate hell. vegas was cool when the jewish mob controlled that town. now it is just a bunch of jewish ceo's that run it.PRMoon said:You obviously know nothing of the club industry.
Sing your songs little song bird.aldaris said:and you do? your entire thread on how great vegas is still has me laughing. you made vegas sound like moscow. the nightlife you know about is aimed at the dregs of society who show up in vegas so that they can be somebody for the weekend. vegas is corporate hell. vegas was cool when the jewish mob controlled that town. now it is just a bunch of jewish ceo's that run it.
now you can go offer advice to some little boys on how to be a superstar nightlife stud. about the only people who listen to you on here are the little kids. should tell you something.
I have to agree with this. The city which have the clubs/bars that I frequent never advertise or promote. They let word of mouth do it for them. They make sure the atmosphere is right and people want to be there. Then friends tells friends. These places are ussually the most crowded and the nicest.aldaris said:if you have to promote your joint it sucks. the in venues never promote.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.