"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Any Chance !?!

Bingo-Player

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Of a little more quality in new threads ?

I come on here most days (bar weekends) and There hasn’t been an good insightful thread on here since poon king rocked up about 5 - 6 weeks ago

Every single new thread these days seems to start with “how do i.......” or “i cant.......”

I’m fed up of reading them let alone posting in them

Yea great advising noobs on basic game outlay gives a nice sense of well being

But where is the desire for progression by the more knowledgeable posters

Where is MR Wright !?! ....i enjoyed his diary and certainly took many real life scenarios out of it

Who was posting those great sex tips a while back ? get more of them up here !!!!

Monkey king , Sylvester , lefty , espi , atom smasher , LMFAO, greasy pig ,nemo , darth , mauser , johnchops , poon king , fireballs , rainman

Your all far too quite

Infact anyone whom has spent time on this site developing and creating new techniques with women from scratch should be creating field reports or something at least weekly

If we don’t , we just become stuck repeating ourselves over and over like we are now

We should be working as a well oiled unit pumping out pure seduction and attraction methods

If something aint working .....WHY AINT IT WORKING ?

If something IS working ......WHY IS IT WORKING ?

Ive been experimenting on my plates lately ....not particularly for my own benefit but to see what really works well and what doesn’t

I completely nuked one chicks hamster by reversing her own game on her

(will post a review after this)

But yea come on guys get experimenting with your girls

we cant seriously think we know it all yet

Theres fathoms of tips and tricks weve yet to learn :rolleyes: :crazy:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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EvilSpirit22

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Exactly! I have been on this forum since last year and everyday I got something interesting to read. But since last two months only newbies are posting about their problems.


I have been trying to refine my game and seriously haven't found anything which would work for me.

I wish somebody could teach me game or at least guide me in some direction from where I could progress.
 

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I had a moment of lucidity the other evening, albeit when I was completely off my face, regards a step-by-step process to building and maintaining a successful relationship.

I will put something together this afternoon and see what you guys think.
 

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Fair call, OP. For me, I have been here for a long time and started off idolising some of the legends of SS. But I don't feel comfortable giving unsolicited advice for fear of coming off looking like a douche.
I'll happily give it when asked though.
Still, your post has got me thinking. I might be a bit more proactive in future.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Yea. I am with this to. Field report of growth and thoughts. I think my problem is no one likes to read my posts because they are to long. Its just the way I write. Maybe work on that also.
 

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hey come on guys are you seriously trying to tell me you can approach a HB 9 on the street and not give a fvck

but when it comes to posting on SS your afraid of being judged by some guys you will probably never meet in your whole entire life :kick:

and besides theres a mutual respect around here nobodys really mastered anything yet or none of us would need to be here :cool:
 

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The site tends to go in cycles. Right now we're in the cycle you just described. A large part of the site is a "hospital" of sorts, where inured men come in to get triaged. Hence the occasional influx of greenhorns.

Your point is well taken though. I'm looking forward to your post on the game reversal.
 

SmooveMooves

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I was thinking the same thing recently.

Usually there's at least one or two interesting threads to read daily. Either a interesting take on game or a 5 page controversial arguement.

But as of late, the threads have been trash.

I think I'll be more proactive now as well. I'll make a post soon having to do with a realization I recently had about losing.
 

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I liked this site for its tips and ideas.

Dj's would post on a date they'd have and tell random things they did and that'd give me ideas to try new things on dates, or post about lil things they say to girls that seem to work to keep interest high.

Stuff like that is useful, I admit I've posted some AFC threads in the past, but that's also to get a reality check from you guys which I needed (Thanks guys)

Overall quality has dropped and I remember one poster said that the successful guys are not on sites like these, there enjoying their life.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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This site is loaded.. I never get bored and I learn something nearly every time I come. When there aren't many new posts that interest me I go back and read old ones from a long time ago or ones I have already read just to burn stuff in my mind harder.
 

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And there could be a dedicated section for newbies, recovering AFCs such as myself.
 
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