"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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any chance with girl?

Atldude

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so this girl i knew from college before she transferred out... is back in my city.. anyways she is engaged now to some guy who she went to school with but is now in africa with the peace corps... he's coming back in march of next year...

so should i make a move.. and do i have any chance.. and what move should i make.. i am looking for LTR

thanks
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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gherald

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this post is so stupid...u shudnt make a move and u have no chance with her...and u say u're looking for an LTR?wake up man...
 

PectoralisMajor

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You deserve a slap and CLEARLY have a lot to learn still about women and self respect.:down:

You wont understand why I;ve said the above, and it will confuse you. One day however, you will.

In the meantime meet as many girls as possible, and improve your life as best you can. Women are attarcted to guys with things going for them.
 

aussiegoat55

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Seems you were too afraid to ask her out when you knew her in college before she transferred, but now that she is gone, and engaged, you want to be selfish and try to ruin her engagement?

Should have mustered the courage to hook up along time ago. Now an oppurtunity has passed and you're panicking, probably coming to the realization that not a whole lot gets done sitting on your ass.

Move on and keep learning.
 
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